Couples should start realizing that divorce is not the only option to their conflicts. The expectations that most individuals have when entering a marriage will almost always never be met in the way they personally desire them to be. This, however, does not mean their spouse is unable to meet their needs; the need may be met in a different way. Couples need to not be so quick to give up and begin to realize that all it takes, sometimes, is a second
There are those in our society that believe, in spite of these reasons, it is morally and ethically wrong to divorce. Their conviction is that it is imperative the couple stay together and work out their dissimilarities. They also believe the process of divorce has become easier; therefore, couples are finding it simpler to divorce rather than exert time, effort and money into marriage counseling. The first reason why a marriage might end in divorce is the lack of commitment in one or both spouses. According to Rebecca Harbauer “commitment is the glue to bonding a marriage …” (www.helium.com).
Insecurity causes jealousy which causes the couple to start questioning each other’s intentions and it would put a dent in the trust of the relationship. When there is no trust in a marriage, the marriage cannot move forward, and what is the point of being stuck in the same place forever? The last but definitely not the least cause of divorce is the inability to compromise. The reason why everyone everywhere tolerates one another is because we compromise. We let go in order to avoid arguments or unnecessary chaos.
Just because divorce happened to their parents, doesn’t mean it could happen to them. However, because their parents broke the bond they had, and the trust with the child, they will struggle a lot more in developing healthy relationships. Later realizing, they can’t forget, so long as they live. However, this is not the only example, there’s so many reasons why you would choose to do something over not, because of your past
With continuous stressors that are added on, it just makes the process much worse. If parents feel that getting a divorce is the best option, then it needs to be done. At this point, parents have to stop being selfish and just think about what is best for the children. Parents should want nothing but positivity surrounding their children and they will appreciate that in the long
Married couples facing irreconcilable marital problems should not stay together for the sake of the children because they need to take their own welfare into consideration, divorcing may let them function better as a family, and staying together could put the children more at risk for psychological problems. Couples facing the issue of whether to get divorced have many things to take under consideration. However, they need not forget about themselves when making such a life-altering decision. Couples need to consider their own welfare when contemplating divorce. They do not realize that how they feel and act affects how their children are going to feel and act.
But sometimes a relation doesn’t reach its destination where it is supposed to be, unfortunately it ends mid way. The problems leading to such an ending are due to lack of understanding between the individuals or arrogance and ego in any one among the couple and lot more. But the main reason is ego and arrogance because of which one doesn’t value the other person. But it is always said that value of someone is realized only in their absence. However, when you realize the importance of your loved one, how to get back your ex in your life?
The main weakness of this method is also its strength, it focuses on the couple. While this method may help some couples to get their ideas out there, it can make other couples remain silent. Specifically, if a relationship has someone who does not want to be at therapy, they may not be willing to engage in dialogue since they will not see its benefits. Therefore, since the therapist is mainly trying to stay out of the conversation, the client may not be pushed to speak up. Additionally, they may feel as though there are no benefits for the therapy since they have to solve their own problems.
It’s an unending cycle. Cheating can cause a mental breakdown. It affects how the person feels about themself, as they start to believe that they are not good enough because you went out to find what he or she couldn’t give you. It can make your partner have suicidal thoughts because pain may differ from person to person. Not everyone might respond the same way to an unfaithful partner.For Example, A married woman expects her husband to be loyal and a married man expects the same because the moment they said “Yes I do”, they made a commitment to be together and not let temptation bring them
When this divorce prevails and all the court dates are done, are the parents doing everything that they can to help their child cope, or are they making this harder on the children than it has to be? Many children disagree with their parents on the effects that the divorce had on them. A large portion of parents feel that if they are stern yet gentle about telling their children of their decision that it will not affect the children as much and that the children will be more accepting, however, the children think no matter how the situation is presented, the effects are the same. Some of the troubles that the children may encounter will be left unspoken, for the children feel that they won't be heard or for fear of punishment for showing how they truly feel. This may lead to secrets from parents, rebellion, and emotional distress.