1. Considering the numerous points that were made in the course, make a List of at least five concepts (questions to ask myself as I counseled those who are suffering...") that you found particularly helpful, insightful, unique, or had not thought about before.
1. Did I clarify my role?
2. How am I showing hospitality?
3. What are the goals for this client?
4. How will I lead my client to God throughout their treatment?
5. How can I help my client create an inner space dynamic?
What guidelines would you particularly emphasize as you counsel hurting people?
There are many unique concepts that I could emphasize own as I counsel hurting people. The most important concept of them all is building trust and rapport, which is like showing hospitality.
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It helps them to see us as real people, someone who is not perfect, and who also experience suffering as a part of life." If a client feels comfortable with getting to know you it will allow them to open up so you can get to know them. While displaying hospitality it is important that a counselor and client is aware of boundaries. This is why it is also very important to clarify your role as a counselor. Clients have to understand that counselors are not magicians. We do not have all the answers or solutions to their problems. They have to desire counseling, change, and healing. Counselors cannot make clients do anything they do not want to do. Once this is understood then we can work on goals for this client. Working on small goals can help them achieve big goals. Clients have to take it one step at a time to heal and become a stronger and better person they were before they sought out your help. When taking these small steps we can also help hurting clients create their inner space, the inner freedom they lack. Explain to them that God welcomes and accepts them in full knowledge of their sin. Taking these steps can help incorporate God into a treatment
They may help someone “feel better, but where is the true transformation of his life? Are these things even goals worthy of a biblical person? Where is love? Where is joy? Where is gratitude? Where’s obedience? Where’s the willingness to sacrifice? Where’s the courage to love our enemies in ways that are both merciful and yet tough-minded? Where are all the good things that are part of human life in Jesus’ image? Such self-confidence is not the image of Christ!” Which is the point…secular worldview counseling leads the counselee to find their identity in themselves or in the counselor or in the plan instead of in Christ alone. In the article by Paul Tripp, The Present Glories of Redemption, he takes the book of Ephesians and breaks it down to see exactly how we are to care and counsel because of the great work of Christ and His plan. “When we counsel people, we must find out what their real view of God is. We will often find that our counselees have a big gap between their functional “theology” and the truth. In other words, when they tell their story, God is not in it.” We as
...ives from the implementation of an empathic, hopeful continuous treatment relationship, which provides integrated treatment and coordination of care through the course of multiple treatment episodes” (Watkins, 2015). Whether, confronted with a substance use disorder, gambling or sex addiction the way in which a counselor work with the client in an open helpful manner is the key to motivating the client to change their behaviors. “A man convinced against his will, Is of the same opinion still” (Carnegie, 1981). The most piece of the helping relationship is that the client is the lead in their care, as they are the ones that will be making the decisions for their care. A counselor is essentially a trained skillful teacher that guides an individual toward their best recovery options and it is up to the individual to make the needed changes in their life and behaviors.
Current research implies that an empathetic clinician-client relationship and interrelated ecosystems play the majority role in the success of therapy (Kilpatrick & Holland, 2009). The clinician’s ability to be present and actively perceive what the client is experiencing is of utmost importance in creating a therapeutic alliance. It is imperative that the clinician gains positive regard towards the client and their environment displaying honest acceptance towards the client no matter what issues are presented in session. This closely relates to a sincere presentation of genuineness that instills a feeling of honesty within the client and clinician (Kilpatrick & Holland, 2009). An experienced clinician builds upon the therapeutic
Keeping a positive and open relationship so that the client feels comfortable sharing their issues with the counselor. If the client is feeling judged they will withhold information and stunt the counseling process.
...ial to the client because they are able to resolve their personal issues one on one with the therapist as well as gain inspiration and hope from the group therapy sessions. The group therapy sessions also holds the client accountable for their own actions outside of the group which is a great deterrent when the client is thinking about relapsing. I believe that with substance abuse, the client can be their own worst enemy because many of them don’t believe they can achieve abstinence alone. The greatest thing the therapist can do is to reassure the client that they will not be going through the journey alone and that they have resources at their disposable. Substance abuse is a powerful and overwhelming thing and it can be completely life consuming however; with the help of substance abuse therapy and a good support group, it is extremely possible to overcome.
The idea is to do so by expressing a willingness to learn more about, and showing respect for the client’s worldview, belief systems, and means of problem-solving while remaining empathetic to their emotional journey. Discovering and addressing the client’s personal stories and realities will enable the counselor to establish culturally appropriate interventions.
...t's problems. Instead, it should permit the client to feel that she has support to dive into emotions she might have been afraid to do so before entering client centered therapy.
I think that clients find their way into therapy because their coping strategies have failed them. They need guidance and insight to deal with and solve their problems. Sometimes clients need someone to understand and listen to them; hence, they seek that through therapy. Furthermore, spirituality can play an important part in many clients’ lives. Some clients need further client that a therapist cannot provide; thus, through spirituality many clients can recover and become better. Spirituality provides extra guidance to those clients that need
Counselors ' use resilient treatment and other remedies to ensure those who need professional help can get it, resulting in a society that has fewer mentally ill people who can harm others. Counselors are good for everyone who needs it. Their programs are designed to teach, assist, and treat various dysfunctions criminals, victims, and the general public may have. Psychologists, psychiatrists, and other mental health personnel such as social workers or family counselors generally conduct treatment (Center for Substance Abuse Treatment,
Confidentiality. Confidentiality is just as important in Christian counseling as it is in secular counseling. According to the American Association of Christian Counselors (2014), “confidentiality recognizes that every client has a fundamental, moral and legal right to privacy and to have a wide range of personal thoughts, opinions, beliefs, and behaviors that are protected from public knowledge” (p. 22). It is crucial for counselors to maintain client confidentiality unless what a client discloses brings harm to themselves or other people. Confidentiality should be kept at all
The counselor accomplishes the above by expressing empathy, developing discrepancies, going along with resistance and supporting self-efficacy. Moreover, the counselor guides the client toward a solution that will lead to permanent posi...
The counselling process is one that may last for as little as one session or for years, it is within the middles stages of the helping relationship that particular counselling skills such as a focusing, challenging and immediacy can be implemented, as well as use of advanced empathy that can be applied due to increased familiarity with a speaker. Many actions may occur within middles stage of the helping relationship such as transitions that occur for a multitude of reasons and the outcome of which can vary based on the attitude of the speaker. Self-awareness remains vital throughout the entire counselling relationship due to the continual influence of empathy in the helping relationship and remaining aware my own motives and values when using advanced empathy and specific counselling skills. Ethics and boundaries are also involved within the counselling process as within a counselling relationship, I as the counsellor, must be careful with the balance or expenditure of power when challenging.
For clients who express their experiences for the first time in counseling, it can be a powerful force to help them heal. It is important for the counselor to pay close attention to the person’s body language, affect and tone. The counselor must consider the possible scenarios that may occur in the first session. Cultural aspects of the client must be considered. From the client’s perspective, the first session is an important session, even if the first session is mostly an information gathering session. The client may have experiences much trauma in their life, never being able to trust a person with their closest feelings. This is why it is very important to establish rapport and trust in...
This could keep the client from making sufficient progress in therapy. Also, encouraging a client to focus on them and finding their purpose in life can be misinterpreted.
...nseling sessions is very important, because the wisdom of God can guide counselors to be more effective and accurate in helping clients who has been damage or abused. There are issues that can only be treated with spiritual integration, with this in mind, counselors can prevent many situations that with conventional counseling cannot be prevent. Spiritual guidance had been proved to work on circumstances where other forms of therapy do not work, that’s why the presence of God must be present in counseling sessions, in order to do God’s will and be effective with all the situations that day to day are present in our society.