The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Nighttime Autism

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Through the ages of of 3 and 17, 1 in 45 have been diagnosed with autism. Autism actually affects kids more than it affects kids more than it affects adults. In the novel “The Curious Incident of The Dog in the Night Time” by Mark Haddon, we follow the life of Christopher Boone a 15 year old boy with autism living with his father. We see a lot of the challenges that Christopher goes through with having autism like how he deals with strangers etc.Although we see a lot of Christopher’s struggles throughout the novel, the novel also shows the struggles that his parents go through having a son with a disability. Haddon with this novel showed that tending to the needs of a kid with special needs is hard. In the book Christopher hated the …show more content…

In this novel Christopher’s parents lost the spark in their relationship because of how different their parenting styles were. In one of the mother’s notes, she explains how their arguments were always over Christopher. The father was more patient and calm while the mother was not and could get mad easily. Christopher actually mentions this in novel saying “Mother had hit me sometimes because she was a very hot tempered person,which means she got angry more quickly than other people and shouted more often. But father was a more levelheaded person which means he didn’t get angry so quickly and didn’t shout so often”.(page 82) The father would often get mad with how harsh and hard the mother would be with christopher and the mother used to think the father wasn’t being hard enough. Parents often make their children their world, especially when their child has a special need. Parents find it hard to make time for themselves and never get time to talk about anything other than their kid. This leads to the relationship getting dry because a relationship needs time to breathe like date nights or alone time in order to work,but when you have a kid with special needs that becomes significantly difficult. Parents who have children with disabilities also normally get divorced. The arguments that Christopher’s parents had led them to getting a divorce which left a negative impact on the family. A study showed that 82% of families with a challenged child end up getting a divorce. The divorce had a really negative affect on the father. He felt like he was alone since the mother left him which caused him to baby christopher and not let him be free while he was growing up. He also had built up frustration that he hadn’t yet gotten over so when he was indirectly reminded about the affair the mother had with Mr.shears, he attacked Christopher. That also further affected his

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