Chris Stuckey's Letter To His Father

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A failure to consider his parents’ perspective and an overall disregard of his parents’ feelings crippled Chris emotionally. He did not want to call them and tell them where he was. It did not matter to him. After Gaylord Stuckey gave him a ride and told him to call his parents, Chris simply responded with “Maybe I will and maybe I won’t” (160), then turned around and started walking. If his parents were worried about him he did care enough to call them and let them know he’s safe. Chris had a sensitive relationship with his parents and decided he did not need them in his life anymore. Chris not letting anyone in his family know he is safe left them wondering what they did wrong. After Chris died, no one knew where he was and did not come across his body for almost a month. …show more content…

Not only did Chris not want to call his parents, he did not want to see, speak or even come in contact with them. After Chris discovered his father’s affair he had no desire to even have parents at all. He was so angry at everything they have done. In a letter to his sister, Chris explained that their parents were being irrational and he had passed his breaking point: ‘“’I’m going to divorce them as my parents once and for all and never speak to either of those idiots again as long as I live’” (64). Chris believes his parents have caused so many thing to go wrong in his life that they do not even deserve to have him anymore. To come to this statement and the conclusion of divorcing his parents, Chris had to have been emotionally hurt to a crippling point. He cannot see that they are only trying to protect him and give him a happy, secure future. Chris lived thinking that his parents were horrible people and did not feel loved or cared for, and that led him to rebel. Not caring about what his parents’ feelings crippled Chris with anger and led him to, ultimately, his

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