13. What is/was the effect of sibling position in the family (e.g., oldest, youngest, middle)? I am grateful to become a middle born because I do not have to have huge responsibilities like you do as a first-born. In my opinion, the first-born have to hold many roles to take care of their siblings and such. As a middle child, I can have the experience of having younger brother and also an older sister. It can teach me how to responsible and sensitive to my sibling’s need. 14. What were/are sibling relationships like? We are so close to each other as we always share almost anything to each other. I also realize that we always take care and protect each other since we were in school. I also believe that the family routines that being set by our parents such as eating and cooking together really help us to get closer to each other. 15. When a crisis hits, how …show more content…
What type of parenting style did your parents utilize? did you find the style functional Our parents raised us by using authoritarian parenting styles, no doubt. I think this is the case because I never thought that they were controlling at all even though they put some limit for our behavior. This parenting style really helps us to develop many positive traits and ability to express emotions. 24. What methods of punishment were you subjected to as a child? will you discipline your child(ren) in the same manner? The punishment that I really cannot forget is timeout because I really hate it. Even though I hate it I really think it is really helpful for me to stop doing any behaviors that they ask me to do. Thus, I will do this discipline method when raising my kids. 25. Describe your favorite family moment growing up. Favorite family moment growing up is by remembering how we value our time together. We spend our time on planning family vacation both local and abroad together. All the vacations that we went together leave so many good memories that make it one of the most favorites family moment for
I benefited from having authoritarian parents as they taught me about the importance of rules and boundaries, but there are more cons than pros for the authoritarian style. What I dislike most about this style is that my parents did not provide emotional support to me as I was growing up. They believed in setting standards, rules and regulations that were too punitive. My parents were too caught up in demanding complete obedience, and they did not take int...
While authoritarian parents have many structure and household rules, they don’t explain to their children the underlying reason for these rules.
An individual’s discipline strategies can have a big impact on the type of relationship one has with their child. The various approaches to discipline can even influence a child’s mood and temperament in adulthood.
Punish carefully. If children do something wrong, parents can punish them only when they make it clear that what happened and why they did it. Don’t punish children when other people are on the scene. Don’t punish them in the morning or in the evening. Don’t transfer their anger to children.
The authoritative style is known as the “ideal” parenting style and it seems to make more children come out with high ranks of self-reliance and self-esteem, who are socially accountable, liberated, and achievement-oriented according to Education .com. Authoritative parents set clear expectations and have high principles. They keep an eye on their children’s behavior, use discipline grounded on reasoning, and inspire their children to make choices and learn from their mistakes. They are also warm and nurturing parents, giving their children kindness, respect, and affection (Greenwood, 2014). These parents supply firm and constant guidance, united with love and affection (Coon & Mittterer...
I am grateful of being who I am as a big sister. As the middle child, I feel that my point of view is the best. I get the whole picture. Becoming a big sister again is something amazing. It is something that some people never get to experience. I feel lucky to have little siblings because I know that with my examples, they can become someone great. The opportunity to be older than someone else helped me become someone better. Some things are to never be forgotten and the memories that I have with and of my little brother and sister are examples of that. Although I am a lot older than my youngest sibling, it will never stop me from being a sister. I feel that it is my job to give the little ones advice and help lead them in the right direction in life. My feelings over this experience are indescribable. If there was anything that I could ever change, I wouldn’t change anything. Not even the dirty diapers I helped change or the staying up late nights with Mom. Thanks to them I always tell myself that I will never have kids until I know for sure what I am doing. I understand that there is a lot to it and I think that I will stick with just little siblings for now. Annoying yet sweet little sister and
...uthoritarian, authoritative and permissive. These parenting styles are classified by communication, expectations of children, disciplinary strategies and warmth and nurture. Based on research, there is a link between how children are raised and the child’s behavior. The authoritarian style is the more strict, where the demands are high and punishment is strictly enforced. Authoritative parents enforce rules, but are emotionally supportive. They will listen to their children’s opinions and allows them to negotiate. Permissive parents have a “no discipline” policy and will never resort to punishing their children, but more so of bribing them with food and gifts to behave. Parents play an important role in the development of their children. No matter what parenting you choose, you will have a positive or negative impact on your child’s development. Choose wisely.
One of the most striking differences is that of expected social behaviors. Authoritarian parents expect and require strict adherence to proper manners, often to an extreme! Demonstrating manners in all circumstances is a sign of obedience and respect within this parent-child relationship. This act of obedience may also be expressed in a formal style of communication rather than a casual style both to parents and others. “Yes Sir”, “No Sir”, “Please”, and “Thank You” are words of common... ...
Authoritarian parents, show very little acceptance, have very high expectations of their children and are extremely controlling. These parents are strict, and use a prohibitive and punishment method. According to a research done by Kimberly Kopko from Cornell University, it “reveals that adolescents of authoritarian parents learn that following parental rules and adherence to strict discipline is valued over independent behavior. As a result, adolescents may become rebellious or dependent” (2). The adolescents who come to be rebellious may showcase hostile behaviors, while those who are passive are likely to stay relying on their parents (2).
...gone Medical Center (The Child Study Center) well adjusted children, particularly in terms of social competence (Gurian), have parents that practice an authoritative parenting style. Authoritative parents are able to apply rules and regulations, with emotional responsiveness and respect for their child’s independence. Authoritative and authoritarian parents hold high expectations of children. The overly strict authoritarian parent expects their children not to question their authority and leaves little room for freedom of expression. In contrast, the permissive parent holds few expectations or demands, yet allows the development of self expression. As a result, authoritarian children are apt to rely on voices of authority and lack spontaneity, while permissive children may find it difficult to control their impulses and are reluctant to accept responsibility.
Researches have concluded that “Authoritarian parenting styles generally lead to children who are obedient and proficient, but they rank lower in happiness, social competence and self-esteem” (Cherry)....
Authoritarian-parents who are punitive and focus on gaining a child's obedience to parental demands rather than responding to the demands of the child.Authoritarian parenting styles give little to no options to a child. What the parent says goes. It is a rigid approach to raising children that may have been most effective in times of great famine or toil. It was used most commonly in large, traditional families in which the father was the patriarch, and everyone else was called to follow his command. Times have changed greatly since. Doctors see a problem with this approach in modern times,it creates a distance between parent and child in which the child doubts the parent's love for him. It is based on punishment, which can easily create anger.
Authoritarian parenting, is low on warmth/nurturance, harsh, and strict on discipline, and high on expectation. Parents instruct and order, they do not consider the children 's opinion as a group, and discourage verbal give-and-take. With this parenting style, children are more susceptible to antisocial peer pressure during adolescence, a time when peer influence is the greatest. Boys in this category have the highest level of violence. Teenagers become less self-reliant, persistent, socially poised, and have lower self-esteem.
A child's behavior is seen by his or her outward actions, seeking attention from surrounding individuals causing chaos due to insecurities. The behavior of a corporal punished child establishes self-harm. Corporal punishment produces a child to create pain upon his or her body, leaving scars for life. Children often aspire to find a way to cope with their problems; turning to drugs, battling suicide, or even choosing to abuse their own children when they become adults. Behavioral problems tend to cause a child to have long-term illnesses as they develop throughout life. An illness of the mind and body can affect the establishment of a relationship, producing negative outcomes on marriages. I believe that parents should shower their children with love and care, giving the best method of positive enforcement. A way to correct a child without physical abuse is to use some form of timeout for the child instead of hands on. Using an alternative such as timeout will allow a child to realize the parents' care for them without having to harm them in any
Children raised and punished with respect will be great kids. Parents should treat their kids with respect. Kids are young and they look up to their parents and other adults. They imitate us. If the parent back-talks the McDonalds drive through person. There is a bigger chance the child will back talk another adult because they have seen there parent do so. Respect your kids, if they want to dress themselves for school let them and do not tell them they need to change. If the child wants to be a doctor, go buy him or her a doctor play kit, if they want to work at McDonalds, its just a phase or let them work there in high school that’s more money in your pocket. Respect plays a big key in raising and punishing a child. Treat everyone around you with respect, if it’s a t...