Separating And Shiloh: A Comparative Analysis

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In both “Separating” by John Updike and “Shiloh” by Bobbie Ann Mason, the couples’ marriages are coming to a devastating end when they are faced with a harsh reality of their dying relationships. In “Separating,” the husband, Richard, and the wife, Joan, have decided to separate and have finally agreed to tell their children individually. In “Shiloh,” the husband, Leroy, is blind to the fact that his wife, Norma Jean, has fallen out of love with him and is preparing to leave him. Although these relationships alike are coming to a fatal end after much change in their relationship since they first came together as one, their spouses deal with the divorce in similar aspects but different ways. In a few ways, the husband in “Separating” and the

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