Hearts Like Birds

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Be like the people, follow their mores

God save me from living in a community from which the likes of my friend are absent, for to know him is to know the best of humanity, to talk to him is to learn from him; and to have him as a friend is a rare privilege only a lucky few would experience in a life time. He is the true face of one of the world’s greatest religions, but it is not a face you would likely see on your television screen. If Islam is a city of knowledge and brotherly love, then, the likes of Abdurrahman are its many gates.

Abdurrahman Beyan is a sixty-two years old Muslim-American of Eritrean decent. He also is a successful businessman who owns a number of grocery, furniture and dry-cleaning stores. His employees call him by his initials, A. B., and although he did not mind it for a long time, it has lately started to bother him. He would rather have them call him Abdurrahman.

Abdurrahman understands that Americans like to shorten and simplify everything and that he should not be an exception. Daniel becomes Dan, Robert becomes Bob and even the name of a famous president, John Fitzgerald Kennedy becomes JFK. It is the American way. He lives in America and he must do as the Americans. At least, that is what he convinced himself of. He could have insisted on people calling him by his real name, and that is, to the best of my understanding, as American as it can be. Standing up and not letting people push you around is quintessentially American and indeed, quintessentially Texan.

In the earlier years, when he first came to America, he was a willing accomplice in the shortening of his name, because, at the time, it was more important for him to fit in and adapt to his new home environment. But, more importantly...

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...elieved that China was the belly-button of the world. The stark contrast elicited a sly chuckle from me the first time I made this observation. Indeed, science liberates us from provincialism. It is the likes of Galileo that showed us that the earth circles the sun when the prevailing, 15th century and church sanctioned view was that the earth did not move.

The young Abdurrahman was a voracious reader, but the village did not have a library as reading, for the most part, was a luxury most of the farmers could not afford. The only people that read books were the priests, the Imam and a few rich families who were doing some sort of business in the cities. Consequently, Abdurrahman did not have much choice in the books he read. Still, he devoured the few that were available, digesting the Koran in Arabic and the Gospels and the Torah in Tigrinya, his native tongue.

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