I have always dreamed of having children someday. I have never questioned not having kids. Having children creates an unbreakable bond between husband and wife. I want to be able to experience being a parent and having a family because I know I will be a great mother someday. I plan on having about three children with at least one boy and at least one girl. There is many reasons why I have decided to have children someday. The reasons I want to have children is because I love children and I want to have someone to take care of. I know I would get bored pretty quickly if I did not have children eventually. It is human nature to have babies and I want to contribute to that. Experiencing pregnancy and child birth is a major life experience …show more content…
I would like to focus on school and wait until I am completely done to have children. This is so that I once I have children I know that I will have time to focus allot more of my attention on them. This would also be less stressful on me. I feel that it would be hard to focus on school, work, and children at the same time. I would also like to wait at least two years after I get married to have kids. I want to have chance to spend time with my husband without having to take care of children. While we are waiting I plan to travel and do all the things that we wouldn’t be able to do until the kids are old enough to enjoy a family vacation. Since I plan on getting married before I go to law school, by the time I graduate I would have been married for about two years and I would be done with school. I think that is the perfect time for me to have kids. I love children and I couldn’t imagine not having some of my own. I will take care of them while they grow up. I will have the peace in mind knowing that I have somebody to take care of me when I get old. I will never get bored or lonely. Having somebody that I can love and protect is something that I look forward to. I also want to give my parents thee gift of having grandchildren. I hope I can be as great of a parent as mine where to me and my siblings. I cannot wait to have children of my own
The idea of bringing an unwanted baby into the world is wrong in so many ways. I personally believe having a child is an important decision that requires consideration, preparation, and planning. Having both parents to love, protect and care for the child should be the ideal way, but not having any of those would be devastating. According to “ The Colorado Department of Public Health and Environment Article , it stated that “unintended pregnancies are associated with birth defects, low birth weight , maternal depression, increased risk of child abuse ,lower educational attainment, delayed entry into prenatal care, a high risk of physical violence during pregnancy, and reduced rates of breastfeeding.” (75). As stated in the article, unintended pregnancies can become a result of many risks. I strongly agree with this statement because as I mentioned before a pregnancy requires plenty of consideration. For example, if a woman becomes pregnant and she is a drug addict, she is prone to put the drugs over the baby ,and that baby is likely to be born with some disabilities because of he or she was not taken seriously. In addition, a woman is more likely to become unemployed and therefore the woman would not be able to take care of herself or the baby. Furthermore, what about teenage girls that get pregnant
...e are now able to have children. Human beings have a deep and basic need to procreate, and if we can help to fulfill this need I believe that we should, we should just make sure we do so with the possible child’s best interest and future in mind as well.
Children should be seen as blessing from God, and god should decide when a couple
Mills, Claudia. "Are There Morally Problematic Reasons for Having Children?." Philosophy and Public Policy Quarterly 25.4 (2005): 2-9. Philosophy and Public Policy Quarterly. Web. 29 Nov. 2013.
As a child growing up, there were times I would feel my mother would be out to just make
This is usually a big deal-breaker. It would always be a nice to idea be open and honest about you having your own children. After all, most children just want their parent to be happy, and may be less likely to object than you imagine.
I never dreamed of having a child at such a young are. In fact, in high school I was the typical student. I maintained good grades, stayed on the honor roll, participated in extracurricular activities, and even volunteered at local hospitals. Outside of school my friends I were always doing something after the football games or just hanging on Saturday nights, being typical teens. Soon all of that would come to an end. Little did I know for the next few months to come, I would be home to what could be our future president or the person that would make history for finding the cure for cancer. The scariest thing is, I would be forever responsible for a new life, as if trying to be responsible for my own was not enough.
...I hope I can be half the parent they are when I have children of my own. I really don't relate to the other two methods probably because I was not raised in those ways. Everyone has there own reasoning and I respect that. Parenting is a big deal. If one were not to be given any guidance or love they would be lost in this world.
No person has an instinct to be a mother. We are constantly hearing the phrase ‘instinct’ and associating it with motherhood. However, this ‘instinct’ can be blamed more on the idea that all women should procreate as it was stated in the bible to “Be fruitful and multiple”. This idea further developed because before the 1880’s there were no functional contraceptives. So as Rollin so kindly put it,
Like many other women, I was raised in a family that repetitively told me that I needed to finish school before thinking about getting married, and definitely before having kids. This made sense when I became an adult, why not put all my focus into my schooling. Yet, for me that would mean that I would be in my early thirties when I finished school. This has become the norm for women to marry and have children in there 30s, then in years past, where they were in their early to mid-twenties. After completing my first bachelor’s degree, I got engaged; I was in a perfect place, and I was not going to hold off just so I could finish school. Now that I have been married for two years, successfully working and going to school, starting a family is important to me. If I were to follow what my parents told me, from this day, I would still have to wait 4-5 more years to finish school, and then start that family. Even though having kids in college could keep your from completing a degree, you should have children in college because delaying childbearing could affect fertility and the likelihood of pregnancy complications.
When I found out I was pregnant I could never have imagined how hard my life was going to be as a teen mom. I remember my dad sitting me down and telling me he respected my decision to keep my daughter, but that I had no idea how hard I just made my life, I don’t think that in that moment I really realized what he meant, but I would soon find out. I was just starting my 11th grade year when my daughter was born so I still had two years of school left. I also had to work so I could take care of my daughter, so trying to do both seemed impossible, at one point my school wanted me to go to school during the day and at night so I could graduate. There was no way I could work and go to school during the day and at night. I had to think long and hard about what I needed to do, my daughter and I needed to be able to survive so I definitely needed my job, so I did
I am the third child out of four in my family, I have one older sister, an older brother and then a younger brother. I was born on January 20th 1997 in Clinton, Ontario. This means I was probably conceived the middle of May sometime. My mother did not take pre-natal pills before I was born because I was not really expected, but she was taking vitamins during this time to stay healthy. My mother did see our family physician while she was pregnant with me. She saw the doctor every month for the first and second trimester and then she saw him every other week in the last trimester. In these checkups they would see if I was gaining weight, check blood pressure, blood levels and just to see if everything was healthy. My mom did not have any screening tests done to see if there was anything wrong because it was not very common to get screening done in our
Becoming a mother has been the best part of my life. I became a mother at a very young age. I had no idea what to expect and was not in the least prepared for the journey that lie ahead. I have truly embraced motherhood and enjoy all the wonderful things it has taught me. While living through motherhood, I have found that it can teach you the most valuable lessons there are to learn. Being a mother has taught me how to have patience. I have also learned that being a mother takes a lot on mental and physical strength. My children have been the best to teach me how to juggle many tasks at once. They have made me strong. Even through some unexpected turns, I have learned how to get through hard times and really learn what it means to never give up. My children are my biggest blessing, and I hope they will learn valuable lessons through me. The skills I have learned from being a mother have helped me in my college journey.
People have different ideas about when to get pregnant. Some of them want to get pregnant soon, and some want to get pregnant late. People may believe that getting pregnant at an old age, which is 40 and up for a women is good but not everyone is agree with this idea. Getting pregnant has its own difficulties, and taking care of the baby increases this difficulties. How do you feel when you are just 20 years old and young and your mother is 60 years old? Do you think she can spend time with you and enjoy what you enjoy? Can you easily talk to her and expect her to understand everything? The answers to these questions are obvious. Children need a mother who spend time with them and understand them. Late pregnancy can bring physical and mental issues, dangers and suffers for both mother and the baby.
When you are a kid you do so many fun things. Attempting to make the impossible happen and your imagination running wild. Also fascinated by all the great things that adults could do right? As a kid, I want it to be a famous rock star and have all day to play. All those years passed by and I was growing up, getting close to being an adult. Now that I am an adult I wish I could be a kid again. Quite amazing how fast your opinion can change right? All the activities that I can do now do not compare to even one day of being a child, I still enjoy being an adult and I still have a lot to experience.