The Importance Of My Life

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Not everyone’s lives are easy to begin with. Some people come from generally rich families who can afford to go on summer vacations every year; some people can barely get through the month because of the amount of bills they have to pay. Being a part of this lower-class spectrum has definitely been a stepping stone for me and my family. Coming to America from the Philippines was merely a small hop rather than a jump to obtain what we have at this current moment. My relatives say it’s luck, that they have me, a working scholar, to help my loving parents bring them their future. It’s not luck; it’s hard work. The days of realization in which I know my purpose in life is to tell my mom and dad, “I made it,” drives me to where I am today.
I see my life as a tree with dozens of branches, constantly growing and thriving to be the biggest trunk in a forest. Although there are times in which leaves fall, it’s always replaced with another, perhaps an even more magnificent one. Until I was in sixth grade, no one ever told me that liking another girl was actually a part of human nature. I brushed it off, thinking it was because of admiration. Yes, she was smart, but there was something about her that made me look forward to math class (and I hated this subject the most). My friends told me that …show more content…

She supports her ramifications of how males and females are defined through expectations in society in terms of personality, class, race, religion, occupation, country of origin, etc. She indicates that, “As a social institution, gender is one of the many ways that human beings organize their lives”, that without it, we start to feel uncomfortable because we cannot successfully classify the individual’s gender status thus Western society tends to put individuals into two classifications: man and

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