The Pros And Cons Of Socialization

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Socialization is defined as the “process of through which an individual learns to become a member of society (LaViolette & Barnett 2000).” The learning process can be from observations of others’ behavior and one’s cognitive thoughts (LaViolette & Barnett 2000). Even before the time we are born, gender plays a role. What the baby will be named and what sex the parents would prefer. For example, the parents decorate the nursery. Blue if the baby is a boy and pink if the baby is a girl. Also, females are considered “second sex” (Matlin, 2008). Most couples want their first born to be male. Also, females are often represented as being inferior to males.
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De-emphasizing gender roles and increasing equal rights laws, the gender similarities will increase (Matlin, 2008). Once she got into high school, and got involved in sports, math club, science club and ASB. That was when she realized, she could do anything she put my mind to. At the age of 18 she did something her parents did not support it, she joined the Army. They felt she need to be married first before going away. While in the army, and 20 years old, she received her Associates of Science. She was just as good as or better than some of the males soldiers in her company. During 2009-2010, she was deployed to Iraq. She was the only female in my team. By the age of 21, she was promoted to Sergeant. Her leadership recommended her to the Non-Commissioned Officer (NCO) board. During the deployment, she was NCO of the year. At the end of her deployment, she was one of few Soldiers that were recognized by the Higher Headquarters Company (HHC). Even after all of the awards, coins and medals, male Soldiers that had not worked with her, treated her with less respect than the male Soldiers. This shows how females are looked at as the “second sex” (Matlin, 2008). From her deployment, she has learned if females want to compete in male dominant occupation, we must be as good as, or better than the

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