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“It is not the strongest of the species survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is most adaptable to change.” – Charles Darwin
The quote above by Charles Darwin refers to the theory of evolution, in which he deduced that creatures evolve through the process of natural selection; those that are most adaptable to the changing environment will survive and morph to better fit their new surroundings. The theory of evolution contributed to the ongoing process and study of human development. The study of human development is unique in a sense that it draws life and social science research methods and theories to explain how one’s psychological, cognitive and social-emotional development are influenced by biological, psychological and environmental factors (p.#). Many believe that one’s being is a product of “nature versus nurture”. However, research and studies show that human development involves both “nature and nurture” in each stage of life. The study of human development covers a lifespan, from conception until death. One may live a lifespan which he/she goes through the eleven life stages of psychosocial development. A positive resolution of psychosocial crisis in each life stage leads to successful adaptation for optimal development (p.9). In this paper, I will delve into my own biopsychosocial development which made me the person I am today.
According to Erikson’s psychosocial development theory, a lifespan has eleven sequential life stages starting with prenatal (conception until birth), infancy (birth until 2 years), toddlerhood (between 2 to 3 years), early school age (4 to about 5/6 years), middle childhood (6 to 12 years), early adolescence (preteen to 18), later adolescence (18 to 24 ...

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...the second turning point my life, where I felt I have accomplished my goal of obtaining a degree, hence, I re-shifted my focus to a future of becoming a wife. My role as a fiancée was to appease my significant other, and my purpose became to nurture an already frail relationship into one that is positive and healthy. However, by putting my own morals, values and goals aside, I found myself in identity confusion, a psychosocial crisis during this stage in life. Erikson states that during this stage, a person evaluates one’s identity (social role) and purpose (direction or meaning and values). Losing one’s own identity is a contributing factor that leads many marriages to divorces. By way of resolution, I have decided to regain my self-persona and find a meaningful career. In turn, the engagement did not survive, leading to my third turning point in life.

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