Stress Reflection Essay

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Stress Journal Reflection
My stress journal showed recurring patterns, my two biggest stressors were races and roommate troubles. To understand how these two situations became stressors it is important to analyze the Lazarus and Folkman model. In the situation of roommate issues, one of my suitemates always comes into my room while I am doing homework. Most of the time I will be sitting at my desk or on my bed reading or watching a video for class. When she walks into my room my primary appraisal tends to answer the questions “What does this situation mean? and “How can it affect me?”. Typically the answer to “what does this situation mean?” is, I am going to lose focus and lose my place in the reading/video. The answer to “How can it affect me?” is typically, something like “great, its going to take me another 10 minutes to get focused again”. It is important to note that I viewed these appraisals as negative and stressful. The secondary appraisal is the act of coping with a stressor. This could come from setting boundaries of time for studying, which are interruption free. I could also set time for chatting with my roommates so we can still be friends. I believe that these events were stressful for both personal and situational factors. I wouldn’t have been stressed if she came in and began to talk to …show more content…

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