Steven Stony Emotional Abuse

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Doctor Steven Stosny, Ph.D. in his article “Emotional Abuse It Hurts When You Love” discusses emotional abuse and the full effects of the behaviors associated with it. In today's society emotional abuse has become widespread throughout various relationships and is being diagnosed more frequently. Within Stosny’s article he poses a statement concluding that, “emotional abuse is more devastating than physical violence.” Violence through emotional outputs is more devastating and can be seen in the workplace, intimate relationships, and in family.
Workplace abuse is one of three most common areas of emotional abuse. In a survey of nurses in Massachusetts abuse and violence were put side by side to see the difference in numbers. Verbal threats, …show more content…

Sometimes emotional and physical abuse can be used together to hurt a person, but the effects of the emotional abuse can lead to worse outcomes. For example in an physically abusive relationship where a partner is being beaten and being blamed or yelled at the partner who is the victim of this assault may feel as though it was actually their fault. If a partner is being emotionally abused and believes it is there fault history has shown they are more likely to not seek help because they believe their partner was just “frustrated.” On the other hand, if a partner is just hit or punched they may feel more obligated to leave the relationship for fear of being hurt or injured again. This is the goal outcome. For the victim to understand the abuse is happening and to do something about it, but many times do to the nature of emotional and physical abuse being combined more likely is the partner to stay because they feel it was due to their actions. Physical violence while although a serious matter does not outweigh the effects of emotional abuse on a person's mind and …show more content…

A very common area where abuse in families can occur is between children and their parents. For example parents working strict hours can ignore or forget about children. A key aspect within young children is nurturing them so their development will be at the normal levels. Kids who do not receive the required nurturing will face many challenges while continuing to develop throughout the years. However it has been shown in research that kids who face physical or sexual violence faced residual trauma at a slower rate than those of emotional abuse. Due to emotional abuse in children the likelihood of a child developing severe depression, anxiety, or substance abuse is significantly higher than that of physical abuse victims. If emotional abuse is not dealt with it can continue to affect the other areas where abuse occur. As a child who has been a victim of emotional abuse might display the same abuse into their intimate relationships and their work as they grow up. Emotional abuse in families can harm the minds of our future far worse than that of physical

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