Spanking Persuasive Speech

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When I was in elementary school, I misbehaved more times than I could count, literally! As punishment for my wrongdoings, my parents spanked me. Since this is a go-to method for many parents, this is the unfortunate reality for many young children, not only me. You may be wondering “why is this unfortunate?” Truthfully, spanking and other forms of physical punishment create numerous unfavorable outcomes on children during their childhood as well as later in life. For this reason, before resorting to spanking, parents should consider the negative impact that it has on their children and search for alternative actions rather than utilizing physical punishment. Before describing the tragic outcomes that are associated with spanking and other …show more content…

I think an even more important question to ask is “what is effective discipline?” According to Telep, “effective discipline helps children learn to control their behavior so that they act according to their ideas of what is right and wrong, not because they fear punishment.” We have already established that spanking is not a form of discipline, yet many parents consider it as discipline because they think that it is efficient in teaching children right from wrong. However, it should be pointed out, and Telep agrees with me, that physical punishment creates fear within a child, rather than teaching them what they did wrong. Therefore, it still rings true that spanking is not a disciplinary method because it is, in fact, a method of …show more content…

A research study conducted in 2007 revealed that “punishment during childhood is associated with adult consequences: aggression, criminal and antisocial behavior, worse mental health, and the abuse of one's own child and spouse” (Richard 365). Due to these unfortunate consequences that take a toll on children later in life, it is crucial that parents refrain from using punishment in their households. By putting an end to child physical punishment, we would be benefiting the lives of many adults in the years to

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