Social Penetration Theory In You Ve Got Mail (1998)

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The Social Penetration Theory (SPT) by Irwin Altman and Dalmas Taylor (1973) provides a framework for describing the development of interpersonal relationships between individuals. During the development, SPT explains the way of two individuals communicate and how the relationship evolve from superficial to intimate and vice versa. Onion analogy is commonly used in explaining SPT in depth that people personalities are much like onions, made up of many layers. The theory of social penetration works when people gradually peel off one layer of their personality at a time until the core of the personality is reached. During the interpersonal development along two related dimensions which are breadth (number of topics used to discuss) and depth …show more content…

Stages of self-disclosure can be seen as they get to know each other first by emailing until they reach the last stage of self-disclosure. In the scene chosen, we can see that Cathlyn updates about what is happening and things that happen at the end of day or after work. For instance, Cathlyn told her stories to Joe Fox about what has happened throughout the day even asked for opinion changing on certain issue. In fact, Joe Fox did the same thing too. For example, Cathlyn tells Joe Fox how she feels about her partner and that emphasizes how comfortable she is with Joe Fox to reveal about her partner and how she felt about it. She even stated at the end of the scene, “but I still want to talk to you” regardless she has a feeling of being guilty as what she did now talking to Joe Fox instead of her …show more content…

- Yes, they did success referring to the theory. As in the beginning of the movie, Cathlyn and Joe Fox get to know each other through emailing by introduce their name, occupation and others as an orientation or process of getting to know each other that stated in first stage of self-disclosure. As the time passed by, both of them started to reveal more about themselves that made them feel comfortable to share their private matters and they even chose to update their stories to each other by the end of the day instead of telling their stories to their own partner/fiancé because they had a thought that both of themselves can understand and have the same interest towards each other very well rather than their

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