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(AGG) Najmah has experienced many tragic events throughout the book that made her realize she had to become more responsible and take on many responsibilities as a young girl.(BS-1) Najmah must learn to be a motherly figure to take care of her mother and baby brother after the Taliban invade Golestan taking Baba-jan and Nur with them.(BS-2) The ambush upon Golestan which killed Mada-jan and Habib had an impact on Najmah’s life because, she feels as though she let her father down in protecting them so she was taken with Akhtar and Khalida. (BS-3) When Najmah knew it was best to leave Akhtar and Khalida, she left and that led to more opportunities after she met Nusrat when she arrived in Peshawar, meeting Nusrat changed how Najmah didn’t trust …show more content…
(SIP-A) Najmah was forced into leaving Golestan, and was forced into turning into a boy for her own safety.(STEWE-1) Turning into Shaheed was not a choice for her to make, but they had to risk getting caught by the Taliban, “You will be safer dressed as a boy traveling through strange areas”(Staples 85). She knew that the choice Akhtar and Khalida had to make will help them survive, and be safe but also risk of getting caught. (STEWE-2) Her decisions around finding Nur and Baba-jan are very risky, but she is willing to take the responsibilities to see them again. Najmah is being independent and making her own choices, “I feel I must keep my distance from Khalida and Akhtar because I know I will leave them soon”(Staples 151). When she became Shaheed she knew what she was looking for, and that was finding her father and brother after her mother and brother died. Her development is that she became for independent and made the decisions she thought was best for her. (SIP-B) Najmah is building up her strength to make her own decisions by using the help she got from Akhtar and Khalida. (STEWE-1) She knew she had to make her own responsibilities and decisions, so one decision she made was to keep her silence ever since she went up the hill “I still have not spoken since the day I took the animals up into the hills before my mother …show more content…
(SIP-A) With all of the major responsibilities Najmah had, her silence made it difficult to trust people along her way of her journey. (STEWE-1) Nusrat helped Najmah to learn to trust, “‘Really, you are safe here,’Nusrat says. ‘ I don’t want to make you talk if you don’t want to’”(Staples 197). After watching her mother and baby brother die, Najmah stayed silent and made it safely to Peshawar and after facing the silence she feels as though she is responsible for those choices. (STEWE-2) Najmah needs to try to let people in and at least has to try,”’It’s difficult to know who to trust. I don’t know that I can trust you. But I have no choice’”(Staples 209). She finally opens up and talks about what has happened but knows that Nusrat may or may not help her, but hasn’t completely let her in. Najmah knew that it could give her a chance to at least find out some information about where her brother and father were. The responsibility of learning to trust was a major issue but she knew it was best to learn. (SIP-B) Nusrat was there and was willing to help Najmah and give her a successful future, but with the return of Nur it is best to get their father’s land back which was his last wish. (STEWE-1) Nusrat was the first to know that Najmah was a “girl-dressed-as-a-boy”(Staples 194) at the refugee,
First of all, in chapter five, Atiq went to the mosque for the Isha Prayer. Then, he left and wandered around the city. Unknowingly, he arrived at the jailhouse. He decided to spend the night there. So, he lit up the lamp and lied down. Suddenly, he got scared to see Nazeesh behind him. As you can see, Atiq met Nazeesh a decade ago, when he was a mufti in Kabul. Then, Nazeesh told the sad story of his old father. He also told him that he wanted to die by walking into the ocean. He was describing the way of his coming death for a long time. Furthermore, after the discussion on his old father and his plan of death, he left that place. After that, Atiq also headed towards his home again. On the way, he started to think about his wife and whether she was continuing her role of sacrificial victim. Finally, he decided to stop her from doing any kinds of works and to treat her much more gently and nicely.
We see a innocent boy who is struggling to be himself. His father that goes by the name of Baba continuously makes Amir feel unworthy and shameful. In a scene Amir eavesdrop and Baba unapologetically proclaims, “If I hadn’t seen the doctor pull him out of my wife with my own eyes, I’d never believe he’s my son” (Hosseini 23). Baba bluntly insinuates that he doesn’t understand Amir. He doesn’t understand why he spends so much time reading books and why every time there’s an opportunity to fight with the local boys he doesn’t. From the genesis, the audience can tell that the protagonist will have an issue with his identity. By not being accepted by Baba, Amir selfishly watches his dear friend Hassan get raped because he knew if he stood up for him that there will be a chance that the kite would be tarnished and as a result he wouldn’t receive the affection that he always craved from Baba. As soon as this occurred, Hassan and Amir’s relationship drastically alters. Hassan later tells Rahim Khan what happened. His unforgettable scar haunts him and this scar is later passed on to his offspring. Amir’s identity issue is what forced Hassan and Ali to depart. This could’ve been changed if Amir didn’t doubt himself from doing what is moral because at the end he ends up doing just that. If he knew that his identity truly lied in the decision that he makes the regret he suffered wouldn’t have exist.
...Nao learned the horrible truth that the Haruki she had admired is only the exact opposite of what he is really like. Haruki is a peaceful person who loves to study French literature and secretly detested the war. Instead of sacrificing himself to kill his so-called enemy, he drove his plane into the sea. After Jiko’s funeral, Nao’s father revealed the truth about his job loss: the army thought his design of the video game is very ingenious and want to experiment it in real life. After he refused, he was fired. Astonished by the truth, Nao felt deeply ashamed for what she thought of her father before. Having understood each other, Nao and her father regained hope and decided to live on. She had set goals for her future, return to school to study French, also write the story of Jiko’s life. The ending of the diary is very hopeful and indicated a new beginning for Nao.
Amir goes through many events that take place in the book that change him, and the way he is perceived within the book. Amir is a young boy, who is tortured by his father’s scrutinizing character. Amir is also jealous of Hassan, because of the fact that his father likes Hassan instead of Amir. Amir fights for his father’s approval, interest, and love. This is when Amir changes for the good as he deals with the guilt of the rape of Hassan. Amir witnessed Hassan getting raped, but decides to nothing in order to win over his father’s interest. The guilt that Amir builds up is carries from his premature times as a child to his mature times. From Afghanistan to
Amir’s development from being “a boy who won’t stand up for himself,” to a man that stands up for the morally responsible thing to do (22, Hosseini). When Amir was a child, he tried to escape from his sins in the past by hiding them with lies. However, this only made it worse for Amir, causing him to be an insomniac for much of his life and putting himself through constant torment. Only when Amir became a man, like Baba wanted him to be, was Amir able to face the truth of what he done and put himself on the path of redemption. Even when Amir was suffering a violent beating from Assef, Amir was able to laugh because he knew he was doing what he should have for Hassan years ago. Amir’s development from a child, who lies in order to cower from their own mistakes, into a man, someone who is not only able to admit his sins, but atone for them, is essential to communicating the theme of redemption being the only way to settle with your
After weeks of secrecy, a brutal fight, and battles with the immigration office, Amir is able to return to America with a bright perspective of his new home albeit broken, beat, and scarred, and a new adopted child, Sohrab. The developed Amir is brought out with his interaction with General Taheri. In the novel, Amir shows his new found ability to stand up for himself with the quote, “‘And one more thing, General Sahib,’ I said. You will never again refer to him as a ‘Hazara boy’ in my presence. He has a name and it’s ‘Sohrab’” (361).
To atone for his past sins, he embarks on a journey back to Afghanistan to redeem himself to Hassan for not treating him the way he was treated. He redeems himself by saving Sohrab and giving him a safer and enjoyable life in the Untied States. Amir tyres to attain redemption to baba for being the cause of his mother’s death as he believes. Gaining his fathers love and care will make him feel redeemed from all of the resentment and lack of care that his father shows to him. He must prove to Baba that he is worthy of spending time with everyday because he feels the hatred that his father shows to him. One way how he gets redemption from his father is by winning the kite running tournament to prove to him that he is worthy of being his son. Amir’s path of redemption is not only directed to other people but personal redemption for himself. He attempts to redeem himself by building an orphanage with his wife Soraya and giving Sohrab the childhood that is safer and more suitable for a young boy to grow up in. Amir has to realize that the past doesn’t define who someone is although you can’t forget the past, the actions that they decide to do to redeem themselves from the past mistakes defines who someone is. If Amir’s mother did not die at birth would he be resented from his father greatly and have to make great
Even when Amir was nasty and cruel to him, he had always been a faithful, kind soul. He never doubted that Amir was his friend and that he held a special place in his heart. When Hassan got raped, Amir did not help Hassan. There were ultimately two options: step up to the bullies and rescue Hassan, or run away. Even after hearing Assef say how Amir would never do the same for him, about how he would never stand up for him, he still chose to run away and pretend like he did not just witnessed what had happend. There is also scene where Amir is feeling guilty and both the boys are around a pomegranate tree. Amir just starts pelting Hassan with pomegranates and threatens to him to throw one back. He exclaims, “You’re a coward,” (...). And what does Hassan do? He picks up a pomegranate, but instead of hurling it in Amir’s direction, he smashes it on himself and says, “are you satisfied?” (....). There is this constant pressure on Hassan and Amir’s relationship. The Afghan society would not approve of such “friendship.” Both of the boys were good, but Amir was so young when he made the mistakes that it made the reader question whether there was a way for Amir to be morally good again.
Throughout the book there were many turning points. The war made Lesley really feel a part of Israel and the people. Another turning point was when Lesley was allowed to join the p’oola because she was finally excepted as one of them. The most important turning point is when Lesley, at the end of the book, takes the picture Mustapha threw at her and wrote “a peace between us and between our peoples'; in three languages and stuck it in the wall in Jerusalem. The major conflict in this story was moving to Israel because Lesley threw fits until she secretly visited Noah. (Lesley’s brother who was disowned because he married a catholic girl.) He told her to go and that’s when the conflict stopped. The plot enabled the characters to change. Lesley became excepting of life and the Arabs through events in the plot.
Amir is, to be put bluntly, a coward. He is led by his unstable emotions towards what he thinks will plug his emotional holes and steps over his friends and family in the process. When he sought after Baba’s invisible love, Amir allowed Hassan to be raped in an alleyway just so that the blue kite, his trophy that would win his father’s heart, could be left untouched. In the end, he felt empty and unfulfilled with the weight of his conscience on his shoulders comparable to Atlas’ burden. Unable to get over his fruitless betrayal, he lashes out and throws pomegranates at Hassan before stuffing money and a watch under his loyal friend’s pathetic excuse for a bed, framing Hassan for theft and directly causing the departure of both servants from his household. Even after moving to America, finding a loving wife, and creating a career for himself in writing, he still feels hollow when thinking of his childhood in Afghanistan. Many years later, he is alerted of Hassan’s death and sets out on a frenzied chase to find his friend’s orphaned son. He feels that he can somehow ease his regrets from all of those years ago if he takes in Hassan’s son, Sohrab. He finds Sohrab as a child sex slave for Assef, who coincidentally was the one to rape Hassan all of those years ago. After nearly dying in his attempt to take back Sohrab, he learns that he can take the damaged child back to the states with him. Sadly, Hassan’s son is so
The announcement seemed positive as long as there was a home to go back to, this was not the case for Jeanne, “In our family the response to this news was hardly joyful. For one thing, we had no home to return to.” (Manzanar 127). Jeanne was scared not knowing what home meant to her family, and also scared to face the world outside of Manzanar. She knew of the wartime propaganda, racist headlines, and hate slogans that were advertised.
What does an ideal mother do? In the novel A Thousand Splendid Suns, by Khaled Hosseini, the ideal of mother is described. In the story two mothers, Nana and Mariam, are showed as the model of a perfect mother. Through Nana and Mariam, Hosseini shows that an ideal mother must be willing to sacrifice, must do her best to ensure their children’s survival, and be able to utilize tough love. Throughout the book both moms are constantly sacrificing to make their children’s life better.
Hassan and Sohrab is completely set aside to Amir’s relationship with Baba, and their family acts as a foil to Amir’s, promoting the theme of the necessity of an empathetic father. Hassan listens to his son,enjoys spending time with him, and plays with him. He takes his son’s feelings into account. Sohrad has a strong connection with his father and enjoys his early years spent with Hassan. While Amir’s early childhood was spent trying to get his father 's attention while also trying to find ways to make him proud of him. He tries his best to make a bond with his father while Sohrab’s bond is organic and natural. Sohrad has his father’s love and affection and does what he is told while Amir constantly strives without success for his father’s love. This leads to him carrying on bad decisions.These two father-son relationship hassan is foil to Baba while Sohrad is a foil to Amir. Both Baba and Hassan are strong and brave men who stand up for what they believe is right in the world. For example Babe puts his life at risk trying to save a woman from rap by a soilder. “Tell him I’ll take a thousand of his bullets before I let this indecency take place”. Same thing goes for Hassan, when he went to go get a kite for Amir. Hassan runs the losing kite for Amir, then finds himself in a situation rap, mine while Amir made a choice to put
However there are some characters that become better people and change becoming a better, stronger, more loyal individual in the end. The individual that demonstrates this development within this novel is Amir himself. All of the guilt Amir holds with him as a child allow him to realize his duty to be loyal to his brother Hassan ion the end. An example of this is when Amir goes back to Kabul, Afghanistan to retrieve his nephew Sohrab. Amir says, “I remembered Wahid’s boys and… I realized something. I would not leave Afghanistan without finding Sohrab.’ tell me where he is,’ I said” (Hosseini 255). Here, Amir is at the orphanage waiting to find out where Taliban has taken his nephew. Amir remembers the three young starving sons of Wahid, a man whose home he had been in earlier, and realized that Afghanistan is not a safe place for Sohrab. Amir is finally aware of one thing, Hassan has always been there to protect Amir like a loyal friend and brother would and now Amir knows that it is his turn to return that loyalty to Hassan by protecting Hassan’s flesh and blood. A second example of Amir’s loyalty to Hassan near the ending of the book is during Amir’s confrontation with General Sahib and the dinner table after Sohrab is safe in America with him. Amir proclaims to General Sahib, “…That boy sleeping on the couch
In chapter 1, Najmah loses her father, who she calls Baba-Jan and her brother, Nur to the Taliban. They have been kidnapped and forced to fight for the Taliban. The Taliban use force and threaten their victims to get what they want, even going as far as shooting innocent people. "'Your son, too,' says the man' he wants to fight, and we wouldn't want to disappoint him.' 'He's just a boy,' baba jan says again, and the man raises the butt of his rifle as if to strike Baba-jan in the face. Baba-jan ducks and turns, and the blow hits his shoulder. He looks at Mada-jan for several seconds. Tears stream down her face, and she repeats over and over again ' you can't go, please! What will become of us?'(Staples). Mada-Jan, Najmah’s mother, is totally upset about the Taliban ruining her life, but they also took their food supply and left them with very little food, now Najmah and Mada-Jan have to do all the work with no help from the men, which will make them work harder and longer without any help, ruining their normal life. After Baba-Jan was shot and their home was looted of all valuable resources, mostly food, They asked for his guns, which they don’t have, "Your guns!" The leader repeats and hammers Baba-Jan's shoulder with the heel of his hand. knocking him off balance again. "I have no guns," Baba-jan says, looking at the man directly. The Pashtun Talib mutters something, and the men shove and drag Baba-jan and my brother toward the Datsun pickup trucks."(Staples). These men are using a lot of force to get what they want, they are known to hit and hurt their enemies and not compromise, as seen here. Besides them being family, Najmah and Mada-Jan are worried about their ownself being, as mentioned before, without more people to help them with the work, they will be exausted all day trying to feed themselves. They