Personal Essay About Moving To America

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Ellen Sirleaf once said, “The size of your dreams must always exceed your current capacity to achieve them.” As an immigrant that came to America five years ago, I find great wisdom and possibilities in these words. I was born and raised in Malaysia for the past 14 years, and moved to the Philippines for a year while waiting for my petition visa to America. My dad is a Malaysian-Chinese, while mom is a Filipina. Growing up in Malaysia, I was given the access to education without any barriers. I went to a Chinese elementary school for six years, Malay high school for two years and sat in a year at De La Salle Canlubang in the Philippines to learn the culture of my country. Growing up with an abusive father is never easy moreover witnessing him abusing my mom in front of me. He brainwashed me to believe that it is her fault and she deserves those abuses. Dad illegally kept mom’s passport for 10 years as a slave in his house. Mom escaped this nightmare in 2007 while leaving me behind due to her limited capabilities to care for me at that time. The Philippine Embassy successfully helped her out of Malaysia and safely returned her home. At the age of seven, I remembered telling mom that I will never forget this person’s name that starts with the letter “M”. She was persistent in asking me who this person is and I told her …show more content…

Malaysian law states that if your biological parents are not married and has a child, the child automatically falls into the moms’ country citizenship. The Malaysian court granted her my full custody without any visitation rights for my dad. After 2 years, mom married my step-dad and decided to bring me to America. America gave me a sense of relief that I finally escaped my abusive father and is now given the opportunities to strive for my desires, passions, and high hopes that my mom has for

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