Most Observances Of Grief And Grief

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Grief is a complex universal reaction. The concept of grief is an artifact of modernity (Kastenbaum, n.d.). It is unique and personal, each journey is totally individualized, never the same for any two people. Losses that lead to grief can include but are not limited to, death, trauma, abuse, war, relocation, illness, aging, addiction, failure, and relationship dissolution (Vaterlau, 2014). People response to loss will depend on factors such as the nature of the attachment, how the person died, history, religious beliefs, personality, age, gender and ethnicity (Smit, 2015). Grief can be experienced in five stages; denial and isolation, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance before accomplishing a peaceful outlook of death. While everyone does not experience all stages of grief or the …show more content…

The most observances of Day of the Dead would be classified as "folk" culture (Marchi, 2013). Day of the Dead festival (Dias de Los Muertos) is the belief in Mexico (Neal, 2014). This respectful remembrance the dead is when the altars made in the home which is decorated with pictures of the deceased. It is surrounded by flowers, candles, and even their favorite food or drink. Also, the family members will go to the cemetery to decorate and clean the graves of a loved one who has passed away. There are times when graveside visits turn into all-night vigils. Mexicans do not fear death; therefore, they tend to maintain a more intimate relationship when it comes to death. Candles on the altars symbolize enlighten, new spiritual life and the beginning of worship. The spirit of children is anticipated to depart early in the day, 11 am. Adult spirits are expected after 3 pm and prayers are rendered to assist them with their spiritual journey. After two days the altars and decorations are

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