Losing A Loved One Person

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The death of a spouse is an unfortunate incident and nothing we would wish on anyone, not even our enemies. But in the world we live in, it is destined we would all leave this world some time or another. Sometimes people leave early, leaving behind loved ones. loved ones that might find it difficult to manage themselves physically, emotionally and even financially as a result of the pain they feel. Perhaps the person lost made the financial decisions on their behalf. The psychological effects of losing a loved can be tremendous and ones finances and health should be secured in order not to let things fall downward spiral and one losing grasp of the reality they now live in.
Here are few mistakes losing a loved one can do when it comes to their finances. …show more content…

: New research has shown that spending money makes us feel happier. That is if you spend it wisely. After losing a loved one, or gone through a horrible incident, you get the impulse to do something, anything just to make you feel better. The person you lost was so valuable to you, you start searching for how to get that value back. In your quest, unreasonable purchases start being made. if you love to drink and dance like I do, the club becomes a second home. If you do not drink or club you might become a hoarder, a hoarder of either trinkets or expensive items, you are trying to compensate for your lost one, but they are more valuable than your money. So what most people end up doing is spending their way to poverty, and living a devastated life from then on. learn to keep things as status quo as

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