Kindness And Honesty: My Most Traits Of Life

Every day I live is plagued with anxiety, turning every person I meet into what my brain tells me is a potential threat and every choice I make, into what seems to be a life or death situation. This amount of emotion, repeated on a consistent basis, can become very tiresome, even grueling. That is why, when looking inside myself, all I desire out of life is to become a living, breathing, functioning human being. The journey to such an “extravagant” wish is actually quite simple; all that is required are three character traits: kindness, honesty, and the confidence of a zoo lion. Kindness is most often defined as being nice, or doing service; although, to me, I think kindness has a lot more to do with whom you are and the way you think, rather

This, to me, is the ability to say the hard things, even when it is painful. I believe that true honesty makes the difference between any good or bad relationship, as well as, a good or bad life! When I live with honesty, people around me know what I expect, how I feel and what I need. There is no guesswork, which takes out a lot of miscommunication, as well as, hard feelings and mistrust. This means having those uncomfortable conversations, not just to be open, but because that is the only way, I believe, to help someone grow. Honesty with self is also crucial to a happy life; because I am able to see myself, as I truly am, not just all the imperfections. I have found that this is the biggest reason for my search of honesty; I have become tired of the constant putting down that I do to myself. There is nothing more that I would love more than to be productive, however, I halt all productivity when I live up in my head, only focusing on what seems to be the worst things that make me up. A true and honest self-evaluation will show me all that makes me, me, including all the amazing traits that I embody, already. I strive to know my worth, and this journey to full honesty will