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Hookup culture is leaving our generation unhappy and unprepared for relationships. The way one carries themselves and how one is treated has a huge impact on how they feel and how they treat others; hooking up can affect these aspects negatively. Some effects hooking up may also have on teenagers is STD's and unwanted pregnancies. To begin with, hooking up can leave one with a plethora of self esteem struggles. Firstly, hooking up can lead one to feeling regretful, used, and lacking confidence. Only one thing is being received or given when doing so, and there isn’t any commitment. The one thing that you are given should not be oneself though. The pleasure that comes with acting out sexually, isn’t as long lasting than all of the prejudice that may come after the fact. Hookup culture has definitely made people think and feel like this is acceptable, when it is not. Correspondingly, a of hooking up is how it may affect future relationships. Adjusting to this way of life, can be very easy when it’s everywhere we look. Going into a relationship with the mindset of just hooking up can be hard as well. There isn’t any telling what the significant other may think of you. This kind of painful and wasteful …show more content…

An example of this would be getting be getting pregnant. 75% of teen pregnancies are unwanted. 42% of those babies in 2011 were abortions. Likewise, being unready emotionally, physically, or financially for a child, being the only reason to have sexual relations, should be a concern as well. Another example of something you may get out hooking up, unfavorably, is an STI or STD. Everyone may brush of the thought of these off if you have the knowledge of there is medication. There are certain STDs that you have for life as well though. This reason may also be something keeping you from having kids, or having intimate relationships when the time is

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