Ethical Dilemmas

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In this paper, I will explore the question of the moral permissibility of intervening when I see and know of a close friend suffering with abuse and self-harm. This question touches on a larger debate as to the extent of a person’s autonomy, and if that can ever be overruled by someone else’s attempt to force a decision they believe is in the best interest of their friend. The specific example I will be focusing on is when the close friend explicitly tells me to not seek help on their behalf. It is a situation where I believe that she is not safe living at her home, and I am constantly scared that one day will be the day that something extremely serious occurs and I am never able to see my best friend again. I argue that is is morally permissible, …show more content…

My opponent will claim that there are other ways to address my own emotional and mental health (resulting from the knowledge of the abuse), that do not involve seeking professional help for my best friend. They will ask why I cannot just enroll in individual therapy sessions, or talk to a professional about my own feelings and not include my best friend in it? This sub-question about why I could not simply talk to my own therapist or professional can be answered by once again looking at the nature of the relationship between best friends. Part of my definition of that relationship involves the emotional investment that these types of friends have in each other’s lives. Whether rightly or wrongly (the debate about how healthy this type of best friend relationship is for both parties is outside the interests of this paper), my emotional well-being is fairly strongly connected to the well-being of my best friend. The only way I could take care of myself through therapy sessions is if I detached the emotional strings that connect my best friend and I, thereby breaking the friendship. A counterargument to and question pertaining to friendship cannot be simply to end the friendship. There would be no true, close friendships left in the world if every time someone was faced with a moral dilemma regarding their friend, the correct answer is just to ditch the friend all together—basically avoiding the dilemma

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