Transgender Children: Struggles and Empowerment

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Transgender children have obstacles to jump through while they are in the process of changing. In The LA Times article “A Transgender 9-Year-Old Tells Her Story” Sonali Kohli, writes about a nine year old transgender child's life and the struggles she went through becoming transgender. Many children who are transgender struggle with bullies and other personal issues during the change. Children should be allowed to make their own decisions if they are confident about what they want to do like the nine year old boy who wanted to become a girl. Children should be able to make their own decisions. If a child thinks that they are the opposite gender than what they are then they are. Children are smart and know more things than people know. Children …show more content…

A 9 year old boy who likes to be called T is transgender and he made his own decision. Her parents let her do what she wanted by letting her play with barbies and wear makeup. Her parents thought T was going through a stage so they did not worry about it too much. Then it became repetitive where T wanted to begin wearing dresses and skirts everyday. Her parents googled transgender children so they could see if that was what was happening to their child. One day her mom asked her “are you a girl or a boy?” And T responded “I'm a girl” (Kohli). At that point her mom and dad knew that their little boy was now there little girl. They went to the school and talked with her principal about the change. Her parents knew that their would be some bullying because their daughter had boy body parts. T did not care. “She is on the volleyball team and has a poster above her bed of the college where she wants to play” says Kohli (Kohli). T loves volleyball so much that she can recite volleyball rankings by heart. Volleyball runs in her family and she wants to be a volleyball player like her mom and sister. When she would go shopping as a toddler for Halloween she would always want to be a cheerleader or a fairy. She always would go to friends houses and play in toy kitchens or dress up. T told her mom through quivering lips “I wanted to be a girl one mama” (Kohli). Her parents would do some research when T went to bed, about transgender …show more content…

I believe that children should not be afraid of being different. If a child does not feel like the person that everyone wants them to be then they have the right to be who they want. They should not have to make people happy by being someone they are not. Children should be allowed to be the person they want to be, even if people do not like it. Showing children they can be whatever they want if they are dedicated to it, helps children know they can be anything if they put their mind to it. Helping children through tough situations helps them emotionally. They need support with anything they want to do. If children do not have supportive families they can become depressed and they will start to think that anything they want to do can not happen. Without a supportive family they might start to get into trouble because they want someone to care, and getting in trouble will get them some attention. Luckily T has a supportive family and she knows the difference between right and wrong. If she did not have a supportive family, her life could be completely different. Sometimes when a child wants to become transgender their family will not allow them to change and they become depressed or begin to get in trouble. Letting children make their own decisions on who they want to be is extremely important because it can impact their life in either a good or bad

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