My Family Customs Essay

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My family customs are very basic if you ask me. I think that the most cultural custom that my family observes is that we celebrate Kwanza. My family is very family centered. My family is very close a far as my immediate and intermediate family. My family has a family reunion every year and we meet all over the United States for it. Last year we went to Ocean City, Maryland and this year we will be in Lumberton, North Carolina. This is a time we my whole family gathers and we celebrate are ancestry and we honors are ancestors and those who have passed. We also acknowledge the educational gains of members of the family. I find the question of what cultural practices and customs do my family abide by to be very hard. To be honest I really don’t …show more content…

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