Sexual Response And Orgasm Of Sexual Behavior

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When it comes to sexual behavior we can understand that many of us view it in a variety of ways. For what seems normal to one group of people may be completely different for another group, so we cannot make assumptions of what is normal or not. We also have to take into account that we have different values and that is what helps to define what we approve and find normal within our sexual behavior. When you take a look all together we must look at our experiences, our personal values and perspectives when expressing what the norm for each and every one is.

As it states in the text, “We can learn how our bodies respond to sexual stimulation through personal experience, but it can teach us about the biology of sexual response and orgasm (Human Sexuality 2014, pg. 3).” I completely agree with that statement and I see masturbating as a perfectly normal sexual behavior. When I was about 16 is the first time I ever really touched myself and I was never really sure if it was okay to do that at all. I felt like I would get in trouble if I was ever caught doing that by my parents. All I knew is that I liked how it felt because it never occurred to me that one can feel such sensations at all. And when I began to become sexually active I wasn’t too sure of what I liked until I was in college. I was open to different experiences with the guy I dated for two years. Although he was a virgin and I was more experienced I felt like I was the virgin instead of him. What I came to find was that I did not like giving oral sex for me that was just uncomfortable for me, I saw it as normal but not one of my favorite things. Although receiving seems to always be better for each person, I was totally okay with that only because I knew my partner actuall...

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...nd I know I am not the only one who has felt this way, because I came to know people who was stuck in the same predicament but most will not sacrifice their sexual behaviors for their beliefs and it’s completely understandable it is not simple to go one from being sexually active to just not doing anything at all. In the end it comes down to what you value most overall. I do not regret my actions, nor my choice into being celibate and giving my life to follow Christ.
To conclude I feel that there is no one right way of what sexual behavior is being normal or correct. We all have grown with different backgrounds, culture and influences that has allowed us to perceive what we will accept or not. In the end I feel we should just do what we truly feel and makes each other good about our actions when engaging in sexual behaviors, everyone knows what they like, so be it.

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