Shainberg’s film Secretary (2002) depicts Lee Holloway who is taken to a mental hospital for self-harming, she is then released back into the real world. Here, she finds a job posting for a secretary where she meets Mr. Grey, the head lawyer of the firm. Throughout her stay in the office, Lee submits herself to many tasks for Mr. Grey, including sexual acts. Schneider (1991), , Buss, Larsen & Semmelroth (1992) and Hyde, DeLamater & Byers (2012), reflect upon how jealousy, sexual addictions and the four step-cycle play a role in proving that Lee Holloway is a sexual addict.
Schneider (1991), had five case studies in which she viewed many aspects of sexual addiction through family history, child abuse, age, other addictions and co-addicts. As well as treatment options for those who are sexual addicts. She found that many addicts responded well to treatment options and could continue a healthy lifestyle. Buss et al. (1992), studied jealousy in males and females, and found that females respond to emotional infidelity, where as males are jealous towards sexual infidelity. In conclusion, both genders were jealous which had a negative impact on their mental states.
Lee Holloway is a paralegal, which has been gendered into a female occupation. In Lee’s case, it is a subordinate position in the office, as Mr. Grey provides her with tedious tasks. A clear example of a menial task, results in Lee scavenging through the dumpster.
Mr. Grey: I think I accidentally threw out my notes on the Feldman case. Maybe you could...
Lee Holloway: Go through the garbage?
As she retrieves the paper, Mr. Grey quickly announces that he had already found another copy of the case, and quickly sends her back to work. This shows the beginni...
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...she immediately knees him in the testicles, and sits back down. Three days later Mr. Grey comes in and takes her away, where they later become married and continue on with their submissive/dominant rolls as husband and wife. Schneider states that a sexual addict has an “obsession with the activity” (Schneider., 1991, p.1). It is clear that Lee still continues to do things incorrectly to be punished, as the last scene shows her placing a beetle on the bed that they made together. She has an obsession with being corrected for her wrong doings, which result in sexual gratification.
It is evident that Lee seeks satisfaction from Mr. Grey, as she attempts to be pleased by Peter and fails, consequently allowing her to leave him for Mr. Grey. With her devious tricks and sexual thoughts, it is her compulsive behavior that attributes her to have a sexual addiction.
When her mother dies, six-year-old Linda is sent to live with her mother's mistress, who treats her well and teaches her to read. After a few years, this mistress dies and bequeaths Linda to a relative. Her new masters are cruel and neglectful, and Dr. Flint, the father, soon begins pressuring Linda to have a sexual relationship with him. Linda has struggled against Flint's overtures for several years. He pressures and threatens her, and she defies and outwits him.
One of Laurie’s favorite past-times is reading, especially now that she is unemployed and has time to follow her favorite authors. If you were to watch Laurie read, you would be able to tell when a book is getting really interesting or exciting, because Laurie will start biting her nails until she has worn them down to the quick and they start hurting her. According to Sigmund Freud’s Psychoanalytic theory, Laurie’s predilection for biting her nails is a result of unresolved sexual urges that occurred during the first of five stages of development, the oral stage. Freud’s five stages of psychosexual development are the oral stage, occurring from birth to 1 ½ years, the anal stage from 1 ½ to 3 years, the phallic stage from 3 to 6 years, the
When she stayed in Alabama, she lived with her sister who took care of her legal and financial affairs. Lee was very involved in her church and community and became famous for avoiding the press as a celebrity. She even went so far as to only donate to charitable causes if she was able to do so anonymously.
In Notes from the Underground, Liza, the woman, is a prostitute so she does exactly what UM wants her to do. This being another sign of roles being based off of gender. Not many times do you hear of a male prostitute. No way is a prostitute a steady well paid job. This is the idea that women cannot make enough money to support a family by themselves. As for Linda in, Death of a Salesman, she really doesn’t even have a “real” job besides cleaning the house and cooking for Willy, Biff, and Happy. These are not real
Lee started out in a loving home, that turned into her running away from home at the age of fifteen. Lee became well known with drugs and went on to having a son. Lillian Rose Lee was kidnapped one day while walking along the road and was held captive for eleven years. Since then Lee has begun to live out her dreams(Bush). Even after captivity, Lee decided to continue her life in a positive way. Living life the way a person wants to should be an individual 's main priority, and Lillian Lee is a prime example of this and shows that life really does go on. In an effort to change her life for the better, Lee knew she had to make major changes within herself. One article about Lee’s life after captivity says, “Knight legally changed her name to Lillian Rose Lee and has become an advocate for victims of abuse and violence(Jones).” Michelle Knight, or Lillian Rose Lee, has become a major survivor from numerous events, and had the courage to make a commitment of changing her name. Lee helps to let other victims know that life will be okay. Lillian Rose Lee’s life obstacles are not over yet though, she still has many more to come and she knows it. Lillian Lee will probably never have children or see her son again due to the fact that he was adopted while she was in captivity, but she has decided to not let that stand in her way of living her life. She has rode a motorcycle, recorded her first single, and dedicates her time to helping survivors(Jones). Therefore, instead of dwelling on the past, Lee has decided to be happy and make her dreams come true. For Lillian Rose Lee, life still goes on and seems to be going in her
In the article by Steffens and Rennie, it states that, “For the spouse of the sexual addict, the disclosure of the existence of a sexual addiction and/or related sexual behaviors is described in existing literature as a crisis and a traumatic event.” This is pretty much the main idea of this article, is addressing the needs of the spouse that has been affected by their partner looking at pornography. This is something that I think people should look into more when they are getting married because I feel like a lot of people don’t really or fully understand the impact of their actions. The fact of the matter is, is that something like this causes an actual crisis in the mind of that person’s spouse. A lot of times we focus so much on the person
BDSM is highlighted as “bad, abnormal, unnatural, damned sexuality” in the “outerlimits” of Rubin’s “charmed circle” (Rubin, p:153) a sexuality that is both taboo to practice and also to portray in the media. However, in the last few decades the concept of BDSM has come to mean more in the view of the general public, predominantly in the form of media entertainment. BDSM is evident in film, music, and television, including the 2002 film Secretary starring Maggie Gyllenhaal, Rhianna’s 2011 pop hit, S&M and most recently in the popular Fifty Shades trilogy by E.L James which has sold over 10 million copies worldwide. (Deahl, 2012)
To conclude, with the Lees being Hmong and not wanting to conform to society and abide by the way things works, I feel Lia’s fate was inevitable. The doctors did as much as they could, but in the end, it still wasn’t enough to prevent Lia from going brain dead. Language and communication may have been the one thing that caused Lia to suffer because the doctors couldn’t understand the Hmong and the Hmong couldn’t or refused to understand the doctors.
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...lanced system. There is a great overlap in the psychology of drug addiction and human love that share the same levels of process when it comes to addiction (Fisher et al. 2010). Understanding these processes may help with future treatments when it comes to addiction in many different aspects of addiction (Fisher et al. 2010). In the article "The Behavioral, Anatomical and Pharmacological Parallels between Social Attachment, love and addiction", they state how "treatments used in one domain may be effective in the other; for instance, treatments used to reduce drug cravings may be effective in treating grief from loss of a loved one or a bad breakup" (Fisher et al. pg58, 2010 ). Over all, knowing that pair-bonding and drugs of abuse have such a strong correlation shows how intense human love really is. It is crazy to think we may be addicted to the ones we love.
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...e a parallel correlation from offline jealousy behaviors. Groothof, Dijkstra, and Barelds (2009) suggest that “as for offline acts of infidelity, men compared to women are more upset by a mates sexual infidelity over the Internet, whereas women, more than men, are more upset by a mate’s emotional infidelity over the Internet” (p.1126). Research also suggests that besides socio-cultural and evolutionary jealousy based on gender differentiation; further research should focus on individual’s cognitive social perspective pertaining to jealousy emotion. Harris (2002) suggest that “individuals clearly vary in their susceptibility to feelings of jealousy…the degree of jealousy will be determined by the appraisals people make regarding the seriousness of a threat” (p.11). With that said, further research on sexual jealousy triggers should be further investigated.
7. Historical Background: His name when he was born was Lido, not really Lee. He changed it when he had to go down South for a sales campaign. He thought that the Southerners would like it better if his name was Lee. It worked fairly well too. Anyway, his father was the first person to arrive in America. He arrived in 1902, at the age of 12. His father went back to his birthplace, Italy, and married Antoinette. They came back across the Atlantic. Except this time, his father, Nicola, was an American citizen. They moved to Allentown, Pennsylvania, also where Lee was born and raised. Lee (Lido, I’ll use Lee from now on though.) was born on October 15, 1924. Lee’s father was a sort of philosophical type of person. He always had an important lesson to tell his son. It usually was great advice that just about anyone and everyone could use. His father once said that ‘When times are tough, be in the food business. No matter how tough times get, people still have to eat.’ He was right. He had a hot dog food stand that stayed afloat during all of the depression. Lee was in the Allentown public schools, as a kid. He was an Italian kid in a place full of ‘Pennsylvania Dutch.’ So he was harassed by a lot of kids. He never let it get him down though. His father was always pushing him to be the best. His father was a hard worker and came from a foreign family.
The American Psychiatric Association does not define atypical sexual interests as a disorder unless it causes personal distress, causes another person psychological or physical injury, or involves a person unwilling or unable to give legal consent. These distinctions were made to show that individuals who engage in atypical sexual behavior must not be inappropriately labeled as having a mental disorder. When we think of sexual orientation, we usually think of the continuum of gay, straight, and bisexual, but sexual orientation is a deep-seated attraction toward a certain kind of person. Erotic desire includes attention, attraction, fantasy, thoughts, urges, genital arousal, and behavior. It is further complicated by variations of dominance or submission, sadism and masochism, fetishes, and consent or no consent. These interests may be single or multiple, exclusive or nonexclusive, idiosyncratic or opportunistic, stable or fluid. Possible legal consequences, lack of opportunity, and unwillingness or inability to act all work to constrain our behavior. The sooner we learn this concerning human sexual behavior, the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of the realities of sex. The reasons for our sexual choices are analyzed obsessively, imposing an undue emphasis on categorization rather than accepting the great diversity of same-sex attractions. But the act of categorizing all of these atypical sexual attractions does not mean that acting on them is either legal or morally acceptable nor unacceptable. Explanations for all of the elements of our sexual attractions are complex and probably unknowable. All research runs the risk of reductionism, but when research on sexuality focuses exclusively on genital sexual activity --to the exclusion of considerations of attraction, affection and affiliation--it falls short in understanding our
The marriage between characters Steve Brady and Miranda Hobbs is one of the central relationships focused upon in the 2008 film Sex and the City. The depiction of their relationship is enshrined in the events leading up to Steve’s sexual unfaithfulness to his wife, his admittance of his transgression and the couple’s journey to reconciliation. Prior to Steve’s isolated act of infidelity, audiences see the low marital satisfaction between the couple. Psychological research is able to explain that this low marital satisfaction is derived from an also low sexual satisfaction that their only child was likely to have influenced. The type of infidelity committed by Steve and his justification for doing so is also representative of psychological research results. Studies have shown that males who have extramarital affairs typically commit sexual infidelity and use a sexual reason as causation for initiating the affair. Psychological research can also explain Miranda’s ability to forgive Steve and the absence of her exhibition of jealousy. The relationship between Steve and Miranda is an accurate film depiction of psychological research on infidelity in marriages.