Paul Toughmay Who Gets To Graduate Analysis

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Graduation out of Pride or Fear? In Paul Toughmay’s “Who Gets to Graduate,” he follows a young first year college student, Vanessa Brewer, explaining her doubts, fears, and emotions while starting her college journey. As a student, at the University of Texas Brewer feels small and as if she doesn’t belong. Seeking advice from her family she calls her mom but after their conversation Brewer feels even more discouraged. Similar to Brewer I have had extreme emotions, doubts, and fears my freshman year in college. “The image of herself as a college student appealed to her- independent, intelligent, a young woman full of potential- but it was more than that..” (page 1), is the first emotion that I felt connect Brewer and I; both strong for wanting …show more content…

This shocking, life changing, news had me at a stand still in my life I didn’t know what to do. Seeking advice from my family I turned to them and what I should do, most of them had told me I should take a break from college and settle into becoming a mom and pick school back up later on,“I didn’t want to leave. But it felt like that was maybe the reality of the situation.” Maybe taking a break from college was the best option, I hadn’t even decided on a major at this point in life, why did I think going to college and bring a life into the world was something I could …show more content…

Brewer was unsure if she was fit to attend a university, despite discouragement from outside sources Brewer remained at the University of Texas and kept on pursuing her future despite the fact that she failed such an important exam to start her future. While I was unsure if going to school while being pregnant was something I could handle I also knew staying to make a better future for my child was my best option. All college students have negative occurrences throughout their school experiences, even though they might be different, they go through similar doubts and fear of what they should do while considering their

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