Family Structure: Strength And Resilience Of Family Values

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The valued family structure has been the foundation for generations in history; however, the traditional American family is changing. The revolution has been influenced by the “choices people make and the constraints that limit those choices” (Benokraitis 21). The family structure is forever changing as a result of many dynamics including micro-level and macro-level influences. Fluctuations in the family unit are affected by these factors. These factors should be kept in perspective, stressing the individual choice while not neglecting the macro-level influences. Micro-level influences are personal situations such as a couple not saving money for an unplanned pregnancy. Macro-level influences are comprised of things such as economic forces, …show more content…

However, despite these statistics there are family studies which indicate the ranking of the importance of family above health, work, money, and religion. This data demonstrates that there still remains a sense of family strength and resilience. The articles by LeBey and Coontz each demonstrate how families have changed over time yet are unified in the idea of family values, creating a controversy of family deterioration versus family resilience. (Fix this to include something that briefly gives LeBey’s and Coontz’s positions---just a statement for each—it’s in the rubric) “Causes for families to grow apart include a variety of reasons” states Barbara LeBey. With the number of family estrangements growing, they become more intense and more hurtful. Micro-level reasons for the family division include individual irresponsibility, minimal commitment to the family unit, and just plain selfishness …show more content…

For example, the number of working mothers outside the home has increased since 1970’s, but the mother working is not a new phenomenon. “Mothers sold things from the home such as dairy products and woven goods during colonial times, took in boarders around the turn of the twentieth century, and held industrial jobs during WWII” (Benokraitis 16). Social scientists state that familial issues such as desertion, out-of-wedlock birth, and child abuse have sadly always existed. Similarly, children growing up in single parent households are not a novel occurrence. Even with the rate of single parents doubling in the past three decades, it tripled between the years 1900 and 1950. Divorce is also not a recent trend. The micro and macro level manifestations that tend to split the family structure apart have always existed; nonetheless, they were just not as prevalent or popularized by the media. Families are changing, but despite the obstacles, they are resilient. Families manage to cope with everyday stresses and protect their most vulnerable members- the young, old, ill, or disabled. The American family is synonymous with change, but is resilient regardless of gender roles, divorce rates, and alternatives to

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