Speaking Without Thinking

Speaking is very important in everyone’s daily life. Through speaking and words that people choose to use, they can fully express their thoughts and wills easily. Words that had been spoken cannot be deleting and there is no way for people to get them back. Therefore, people should learn to be more responsible and cautious to what they are going to say and the words they choose. People who can communicate well with one another always have more friends compare to people who lack of social skills because no one likes to hear something rude. Speaking before applying thought will “produce” better quality conversation and dialogue. Speaking without thought will cause negative or unpleasant feeling. Sometimes speaking without thought might seem funny but most of the time it is error which has no use for. In fact, speaking without applying thought will lead the speaker involved in social problems which are actually avoidable.

Obviously, speaking without consider it will cause unnecessary misunderstanding. People usually say the wrong thing or say not the way they want if they speak without thinking. People should wisely choose the words they use. Words without thought will cause the speaker misstated or give the wrong direction. As a result, the listener will apprehend incorrectly and wrong decision will be committed. This will make the situation worse and unneeded misunderstanding and troubles occur. For example, if a senior fail to fully express the command, there is no way for the juniors to do well. It will end up with get half the result with twice the effort or a disastrous report card. In addition, people will assume the speaker be dead against to them if the speaker do not beware to the words they use. People would feel like t...

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...ew relationship or talked to other freely if they have made a social mistakes, especially when that mistake have affects another party.” (p.145). People should be careful on what they are going to say to other people. It is not ideal for people to live in regret.

Speaking without thinking is a very bad action. People should take few minutes to consider their words before they speak out. Before people can realize what have been spoken out, there already had an impact. This action will cause misapprehend easily. It is also able to destroy a steady relationship. Speaking without thinking will ruin one’s reputation and credit. It also causes the feeling of remorse. No doubt, the way people communicate will certainly influence every aspect in people’s daily life, especially people’s social field. Think then only speak, this is the correct sequence in communication.