Societal Suicide In John Colson's 'Gay Marriage'

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Annie Nguyen Mr. Montalbano AP Language and Composition, Period 4 24 February 2016 “Gay Marriage” : Societal Suicide Meaning Questions 1. What is Colson’s Thesis? Where does he state it directly? Colson’s thesis is directly stated with “Marriage is the traditional building block of human society, intended both to unite couples and bring children into the world” (Colson 567). His whole essay is refuting how gay marriage can affect the lives of teenagers and children. Those kids who are from broken homes have a higher percentage of getting into trouble or being in the wrong crowd. He expresses the importance of how it is important to have a family with a mom and a dad so that children can get a good “cultural health”. 2. What evidence does Colson present to link same-sex marriage to an increase in out-of-wedlock births? to link single-parent households to increase in crime, early parenthood, and other problems of young people? How effective do you find this evidence? Colson’s evidence to …show more content…

Gay marriage further damages the connection between marriage and parenthood by causing people to not consider marriagement just to be a parent. He later on argues that marriage has been a tradition since the beginning of time and everything supports it. “The family, led by a married mother and father, is the best available structure for both child rearing and cultural health. This is why, although some people will always pair off in unorthodox ways, society as a whole must never legitimize any form of marriage other than that of one man and one woman, united with the intention of permanency and the nurturing of children” (Colson

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