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Tragic Love
Families have a big impact on the decisions that teens make.
Parents can influence children spiritually, emotionally, on what they physically do and even what they do sexually. When it comes to choosing a lover, it can be extremely hard for a child if the parents do not support one's lover.
In Romeo and Juliet, this was the case and lead to a tragic ending, at least it did for Romeo and Juliet.
The Montague and The Capulet family have what seems to be an everlasting feud. Romeo and Juliet met without any knowledge beforehand that they came from their very own family’s enemy. Juliet expressed this when she found out that Romeo was a Montague “My only love sprung from my only hate!” (Shakespeare I.vi.137). Meaning that she has never been in love until this point but coincidentally as soon as she finds a lover, he comes from the only family that has a conflict with her own. Since both families could not find out about this affair, every piece of the
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Therefore her parents arrange a marriage between Paris and Juliet, something Juliet did not want to do. “He [Paris] shall not make me [Juliet] there a joyful bride” (Shakespeare III.iv.117). Juliet attempts to explain to her parents that she does not want to marry Paris but obviously could not tell her parents why which is because she is already in love and married to a Montague.Capulet and Lady Capulet did not give their daughter a choice.“ But fettle your fine joints gainst Thursday next/ To go with Paris to Saint Peter's church/or I will drag thee on a hurdle thither.” (Shakespeare III.iv.153-155). Capulet was furious when hearing Juliet’s refusal and made it clear that she will marry him. Capulet tried to force Juliet which contributed to her death. If the feud was let go from the beginning, Juliet would feel comfortable telling her parents who she is in love with, but Juliet knows her family would never allow
Different Aspects of Familial Love in William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet At the time Shakespeare wrote Romeo and Juliet, familial love was very different to what we know it as today. Parents did not have a close relationship with their children. A nurse was often hired by the upper classes to breast feed their children because it was not accepted in polite society. Fathers often arranged marriages for their daughters, who would usually only be about twelve or thirteen years old, Marriages often lacked love.
Romeo and Juliet are madly in love with each other and will go to any lengths to be together. To support my thesis that the conflict between the heads of the Montague and Capulet families is responsible for Romeo and Juliet's death, I quote from Romeo and Juliet (V, iii, 291-293) Prince: ". Capulet! Montague.
In William Shakespeare’s tragic play Romeo and Juliet, two young lovers from opposing households make impetuous decisions which ultimately lead to the suicide of both lovers (Romeo and Juliet). Juliet, one lover, has mentors that fail her in the play because of their ignorance of her emotional needs and growing independence as a teenager. These mentors are Juliet’s former wet nurse and guardian, the Nurse, Juliet’s mother, Lady Capulet, and Juliet’s father, Lord Capulet.
Lord Capulet was far more concerned about Juliet and Paris getting married than Juliet personal opinions. Lord Capulet is obsessed with Paris and likes him a lot more than Juliet does. He is desperate to get them married and will do anything to make it happen. “Hang thee, young baggage! Disobedient wretch!/ I tell the what: get thee to church o’ Thursday/ Or never look me in the face (III v 160-162). Juliet pleads to Lord Capulet to let her say one thing, and he is so wrapped up in her marriage that he wont let her say one thing. Lord Capulet is truly obsessed over the marriage and wants Paris and Juliet to get married as soon as possible. Unfortunately, Lord Capulet is still so obsessed with his daughter’s marriage that he is complain that he will have no heir to his thrown. “Death is my son-in-law. Death is my heir/ My daughter he hath wedded. I will die/ And leave him all. Life, living, all is Death’s (IV v 39-41). In this quote, Capulet finds out Juliet is dead at her bedside, and he doesn't immediately mourn for her. Instead, Lord Capulet is upset because he has no heir to his throne. He was so desperate for his daughters marriage that he couldn't think about anyone but himself when Juliet died. Capulet is so wrapped up in this marriage that he doesn't even consider her opinions, disowns her, and cares only about himself when his only daughter
Although Capulet wanted the best for Juliet, he didn't give a thought on how she felt and had forced her to marry Paris which had caused problems that led to her tragic end. She didn't want to marry someone who she did not love and wanted to escape this marriage. Her method of escape was death. Capulet's controlling actions appeared as early as Act I Scene 2, when he was arranging Juliet's marriage to Paris without her consent. Paris wondered if Juliet would like him and Capulet responded with, "Of my child's love: I think she will be ruled. In all respects by me; nay, more, I doubt it not." (IV, 3, ln. 13-14). stating that he doesn't just think Juliet will like him but that he knows she will like him. When Juliet refuses to marry Paris, he shouted, "To go with Paris to Saint Peter's Church, Or I will drag thee on a hurdle thither." (V, 3, ln. 154-155). making her agree to go to the church. Although she did agree to go, her thought of, "I'll to the friar, to know his remedy; If all else fail, myself have power to die." (V, 3, ln. 241-242). showed that she did not plan on marrying Paris and that she would die first. Juliet's arrangement to Paris had brought her death because it had resulted in the potion plan which had caused Romeo and Juliet to die. If Capulet had never forced Juliet to marry Paris, she would have been living happily with Romeo.
lovers showing determination to be together despite their feuding. families and bloodshed caused to each other. It displays love Juliet feels for Romeo, which eclipses everything and transforms the world. relationship she has with her parents, from dutiful to disobedient. However, a web of human actions results in tragedy for both Romeo and Juliet, including the actions of Juliet's parents.
Throughout the whole play the Capulet's and the Montague's have a distinct hatred for each other. This hatred only causes Romeo and Juliet to lie to their parents about their love. When Juliet finds out Romeo is a Montague, she is devastated. Even though their families are enemies, this doesn’t stop them from getting married. Friar Lawrence marries them believing this will end the feud between the two families, “In one respect I'll thy assistant be: For this alliance may so prove to turn your household's rancour to pure love.”
... have been effective parents that had a great impact on their children’s lives, Romeo and Juliet’s final fates could have been avoided. Much like the quote by Anna Freud, “It is only when parental feelings are ineffective or too ambivalent or when the mother's emotions are temporarily engaged elsewhere that children feel lost,” the Montagues’ and Capulets’ are ineffective in helping their children with their problems leading Romeo and Juliet to be lost in love as well as their untimely death (“Anna Freud”).
Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet’s love for each other causes them to sacrifice their family, although their families have always had great gravity over the lovers. After the party where the lovers first meet, Juliet stands on her balcony and promises herself to Romeo: “be but sworn my love, and I’ll no longer be a Capulet” [2.2.37-39]. In this case, “sworn my love” can be rearranged to mean “my sworn love,” which refers to Romeo as the one that she will always love. For Juliet to become a Montague-- her family’s rivals-- would mean that she would give up many things she and her family value. In their fight over her refusal to marry Paris, Juliet’s parents threaten to not “acknowledge [her]” as their daughter, even if “[she]...hang, beg, starve, die in the streets” [4.1.192-193]. “Hanging,” “begging,” “starving,” “dying” are all very extreme ramifications that Juliet’s parents will give to her if she does not
As a matter of fact, Romeo and Juliet’s families hate each other and they would never truly be together in front of their families.“ Montague - You villain, Capulet! [Lady Montague tries to restrain him] Don’t hold me back! Let me go!” ( Shakespeare I.i.65.29). This quote explains how Montague (Romeo’s father) is yelling and trying to get in a fight with the Capulet (Juliet’s father). In addition, Romeo and Juliet married without telling anyone except Friar Lawrence. “Come. Come with me, and we’ll get down to business. For, begging your pardons, you can’t be left alone until you have been united in marriage by the Holy
Parents' Roles in William Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet Romeo and Juliet are set in Verona, where two families are enemies. they are enemies due to an ‘ancient grudge’ which has been powerful. enough to keep the two lovers apart. Montague’s’ son Romeo falls. in love with the Capulet’s daughter, Juliet.
...t will accept his proposal. Lord Capulet takes it for granted that his daughter will do what he tells her, saying ‘I will make a desperate tender / Of my child’s love’, taking responsibility away from Juliet and perhaps suggesting that she can’t decide for herself. Juliet’s parents appear understanding of her grief at first, but then plan the wedding in only 3 days, not giving her time to grieve.
Lady Capulet, Juliet’s own mother was part of the star-crossed lover’s death. Lady Capulet has her hands full with Juliet. Lady Capulet does not make an effort to reach out her daughter now that she’s of an age to be married. But it’s obvious that Juliet’s closest bond is with the Nurse; Lady Capulet never even comes close to challenging that. As a result, Juliet's mother wasn’t supportive when Juliet needed her the most. Just when Juliet needs her mom’s support, Lady Capulet coldly ignores her daughter pleas to help her avoid marrying Paris. After Lord Capulet storms out, Juliet turns to her mother to soften her father’s punishment. Juliet begs her mom to delay the marriage. Lady Capulet responds, “Talk not to me, for I’ll not say a word… Do as thou wilt, for i have done with thee,” (3.5.214-215). It seems very likely that Lady Capulet herself had an arranged marriage with Juliet’s father, and it seems she went along with it obediently. Juliet did not have her mother’s support. Additionally, Juliet had fallen in love with Romeo and the two decided to get married. Lady Capulet, Juliet’s mother, was unaware of the secret marriage and also encouraged the feud between the Capulet’s and Montague’s, creating more tension in Romeo and Juliet’s secret marriage. Lady Capulet is pushing Juliet to marry Paris even though Juliet insists that she does not want to marry him. Alternatively of Lady Capulet listening to Juliet reason
In the classic romantic tale of The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, the main characters, Romeo and Juliet are deeply in love with each other, but from the beginning of the play we know that they would never be able to be together because of family disputes. When reading the prologue, it says “Two households, both alike in dignity, from ancient grudge break to new mutiny, where civil blood makes civil hands unclean” (Shakespeare Prologue.1-4). Before the play even starts, we know how much these families hate each other and that blood is involved with a bad ending for all. Romeo comes from the Montague’s, and Juliet comes from the Capulet’s. These two families were in war with each other from the beginning of the story and these family disputes play a huge role in the death of Romeo and Juliet. Romeo has a passion for love that is unbreakable and he will do anything to get who he wants no matter the consequences that might follow. An example of this is
When people hear of Romeo and Juliet most think about a tragic love story of two young people who died because they could not bear being without one another, but how did that tragedy come about? Romeo and Juliet meet at a party one night and immediately fall in love. They soon find out they are from families that greatly despise one another and know that they should not be together but they are already too far fallen for one another. Romeo and Juliet's parents were bad influences on their kids because of their refusal to end a long lasting feud, teaching hate towards the opposing family and pushing their kids to do things against their will.