Personal Narrative: My Sexual Orientation

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My sexual orientation is not a fact about myself that I openly discuss. I live in an immensely conservative town, which creates an intimidating environment. Even some of my friends and family members disapprove of or feel uncomfortable discussing non-heteronormative sexual orientations.
As I recall one incident, the mother of a friend hosting a get-together decided to share her views on gay marriage. This topic entered the conversation due to the recent Supreme Court ruling that legalized same-sex marriage. She began to state how she was in disbelief that America would allow for gay marriage. She continued by saying she could never support anyone who wanted to live that lifestyle. Her comments made me feel uncomfortable, as I stayed quiet

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