I love God, don’t get me wrong but I want a man. Like I desire one right now. I never try to get into a state where I feel absolutely lonely because when that happens, that usually places me into the mindset that I need to get dressed and go out to whatever club that meets my satisfaction just so that I can get some attention from a man. And usually those men are only interested in empty conversations of the how are you doings, knowing that in reality they could actually careless because the only thing that they are truly concerned about is getting in your bed that night or theirs, whichever one would be more comfortable for me. And honestly my comfort would never stoop to that level but I have to admit the attention was great and …show more content…
I have a long history of falling in love with the wrong type of guy and even being engaged twice to undeserving men who by the grace of God was able to open my eyes to completely before I committed myself to a lifelong decision that would only end in divorce, pain and anger. I’m almost thirty years old and every time I take a look at my empty left hand that should have a nice sparkly accessory, sometimes I just want to cry. I go back to my plan notebook that I created as a teenager and I gaze at the magazine cutouts of what my life should be and wonder why certain things haven’t happened. My daddy always says to be patient and that God is preparing him for me. He reminds me that he rather me be single and him still responsible for me then handing me over to a man who doesn’t completely value who I am as a woman. And why can’t I be valued? Every time I look at one of my social media accounts I’m seeing some women getting married before me who definitely in my mind should have happened after me. Women who show their bodies without a care in the world and some who have slept with half of the eastside of Columbus but they have a ring. They have a nice ring with a great wedding and kids already, whether those kids belong to their current husband or
Being lonely doesn 't always mean that one is alone. Keeping to oneself does not always mean reclusiveness. In fact, one can have many people to talk to and be a very popular person and still feel alone. There are many key aspects that factor into a person’s level of loneliness including how many close friends they truly have, how many people that really understand them as a person, and their willingness to share parts of themselves with aforementioned people. Although the traditional idea of loneliness is still relevant and prevalent, there are many different types of loneliness that people may feel besides the standard type known by the majority.
Everyone has times when they are alone for situational reasons, or because they have chosen to be alone. Being alone can be experienced as positive, pleasurable, and emotionally refreshing if it is under the individual's control. Being alone and lonely, and even
There are four types of love in this world, philia, eros, agape, and storge. Philia is the love of friends. Eros is romantic love. Agape is unconditional love. And storge is the love of family. In the four stories “A Secret for Two”, “The Gift of the Magi”, “Thank You M’am”, and “Too Soon a Woman” they all portray a type of love. This essay will show you how each of the stories portray a type of love.
Love is a weird feeling. It’s been said that love has nothing to do with your heart, it 's all chemical reactions inside of your brain. Infatuation, attraction, crush is such powerful feelings that people do think that they are in love. Also, it is blind to the other person’s weaknesses and exaggerates his or her strengths. Similarly, infatuation often fades within a short time. However, true love is so real and so strong, strong enough that if it came down to it you would even die for your partner. Love as much more than a feeling. It is based on a well-rounded knowledge of a person’s strengths and weaknesses. Not so in the case of China and Jeremy, in T. Coraghessan Boyle “The Love of my Life.” Before we talk about them
There are many positive things and negative things about the movie and the story. In the movie
I feel uncomfortable in my own world. Being alone unnerves me. I always have felt the need to share my world, my mind and my feelings with somebody. My feelings about myself seem less important than what others think of me. I'm scared of being lonely. And so are we all. We all seem to be on a continuous search for someone who will really love and understand us. Someone to provide us with a purpose for life. And yet I think we are all essentially alone. We are alone in our thoughts an emotions.
I disagree and would argue that being in love and loving someone has two very different meanings. The word love is used too loosely. Loving someone and being in love with someone are two very different things. Although I am not a love master, being only 19 years old and in two serious relationships in my life, I have come to realize being in love is something special. I believe when you are in love it’s not a choice, that person is picked for you. You are addicted to them, you want all your friends and family to love them as much as you do, you are there when they succeed and there when they fail, you miss them every minute you are apart and you unconditionally love them, even when times get hard.
We all fall in love at some point in our lives whether it be a passion, faith, or another person. Falling in love is a natural human behavior. It ensures the continuance of the human race through reproduction. Love is often considered a mystery because of its unexplainable feelings. It is the personal and affectionate relationship between two people. Researchers have discovered the biological reasons behind falling in love. The brain controls the signals that release chemicals and hormones in your body to give that rush that love brings.
This is also how I felt about woman for a while too. I thought that I was too good for her and I would eventually move on and be even unhappy than I was before because I really just wanted a good relationship, with someone but because of my father I had a hard time giving of myself, because he kind of taught me to be more so self involved. But then I found my wife, Elizabeth. She was the one who taught me finally that life was not always about what you want, but you have to learn to love to love. And that was a very useful lesson for me to finally learn at this time. Elizabeth and I have two amazing children, Nadia and Ethan. What I have tried to do with my children is teach them that on one hand you have to have big aspirations to have big things happen in your life, and to never short change yourself, and this is something that I got from my father, Willy and I tell them that. But what I also try to instill in them is that you have to start off small to have big things happen you can’t expect big things happen right away, because I feel that this is something that I learned the hard way.
What is love? Love is a very special and meaningful word to each human being. Each human being has his/her own thoughts about love to guide himself/herself to land safely and smoothly into the kingdom of Love. Without this preconceived idea of love, people would be acting like a blind person searching for the light with thousand of obstacles in front of him.
Love happens when you least expect it. It can happen on the street corner, at the bar, at the grocery store, the park. That’s one of the greatest things about love. As for me I found love in the pouring down rain in the middle of the street. I fell in love with a man who I never thought in a million years I’d fall for. A man who is loving, caring and respectful. The night I laid my eyes on him I knew he was it. He came into my life at a point when I was unraveling and losing control. I was lost for two years after my high school sweetheart and I broke up, I thought I was never going to find real love, but I did. He saved me and I remember every minute from that night.
Loneliness is something that a lot of people fear. It can be a feeling that nobody is there, as if you are alone in the world with nothing but your thoughts. The silence and the boredom can get to people, but for me, I'm fueled by it. When I am alone I can focus, I can get things done and find true peace. The anxiety and stress of life slips away when I'm left with nothing to do and no one to talk to. When I am left to myself my body and mind is able to recharge from the tasks that have recently drained me. I am able to rest and calm down, knowing that there is no one around me. There are a lot of people out there who find this odd, that the way they see it is that being by yourself at home is boring a waste of time if you can be out and do things. Well, that's probably because they are an extrovert, and I'm an introvert. Being an introvert is commonly confused with disliking being out with friends and doing exciting things with others, but that's totally wrong. I enjoy my times with others and I got out with my friends all the time, but there is a point, and certain times when I need to be by
“Love is universally accepted by many people and the concept of love within the English language refers to a variety of different approaches, states and attitudes, ranging from pleasure to interpersonal attraction.” (Kendrick 123) My characterization of love encourages the intimate emotion I partake for my family. The distinct connection that we fashioned and the invaluable moments that we consolidated. In the perceptive of a mother, my children are my supremacy and the greatest blessing of my lifecycle. They’re my inspiration and motivation to continue progressing and becoming the best at what I do. With that in mind, Love relics your outlooks and approaches the linkage they become associated with. Consequently, this condition can fluctuate over a period of a specific time. Additionally, depending on your situation, your perspective on love can be an altering affect, creating a stable or inconsistent assessment. Furthermore, causing your love to intensify, decline, or even cease. Love in its essence, stands justly powerful and the beauty of it advances,
I simply adore the phrase “love conquers all.” Love is caring very strongly, and deeply about another person. Love comes from the heart, or the soul depending on beliefs. When a person loves someone, they are there to support them, and work together to solve problems. They are willing to stand by each other during good times and bad, wishing nothing more than to watch, and help each other grow. Infatuation has a few wonderful things going for it as well. It gives goose bumps, and puts that silly smile on a person’s face that they cannot seem to remove. It fills the mind with daydreams. Infatuation feels passionate and addictive, but is ultimately insecure. Love on the other hand is passionate, addictive, and secure. Many fail to see the difference between the two, but in fact they are very different. There are differences in the length of time two people are together, the emotions that are behind the feelings, and even physically.
I have lain in bed spending prolonged periods of time in this state, questioning a multitude of things. My own existence, the reason why I am consistently depressed, the reason why I procrastinate on essays, all of these are things I have thought of in this state of loneliness. These issues alone might not affect the average person, but it has changed my life and resulted in severe changes in my personality.