What impact does your family make on you? Do your folks encourage you to become an individual who demonstrates responsibility throughout all their actions? Or do they encourage you to take help from them whenever needed because sooner or later they won’t be able to assist you with all that troubles you? The way your parents raise you through your growing years determines what type of a person you are. When children are disconnected from their guardians, they have to find solutions to all their problems on their own, as well as, control all their feelings and emotions without any assistance. Children without parents can only look up to their leaders and they are the ones who control the children’s behavior. Dictators treat children a certain way, that is almost never understood by the ones who love and care for them. Most children rely on their parents to make them food, clean their home, take them to places, and overall, take care of them. However, this means that it takes a lot of time for children to develop independence, and being surrounded by people who can always help you and assist you does not make the situation any better. Dictators have the desire to separate young children from their families because children begin to learn how to do everything on their own, and they become self-sufficient individuals. In order for children to be self-reliant and complete various orders from dictators, they have to be tough and able to manage on their own. Parents influence children to remain children, meaning that they have less responsibility and expect that most things should be done for them. This is one of the major reasons that children live separately from their family in totalitarian societies. Many children who g... ... middle of paper ... ...solution to this problem is demonstrated through separation between children and their parents. In conclusion, when children are living with people who love them and would give up anything for their kids, their behavior is very diverse from when the children are surrounded by people who encourage them to work hard for everything in life. Parents and guardians encourage their children’s attitudes, appearance, and behavior to change to a more dependant type of manner by constantly indulging them. The way that parents raise their children is much contrasted to the way that dictators would like to treat them. In order for children to be self-reliant and self-sufficient, they have to know that not everything is going to be chewed up and handed in a platter for them to freely take. Remember that if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm.
The outcomes of government and leader dictatorship in totalitarian societies such as allegiance to the government, collectivism among the people, and the practice of eugenics encourage different living arrangement in those societies. Dictatorial leaders favor the separation of children from their parents and families because it becomes easier to do all of the things mentioned before. Loyalty and allegiance to the government lets the government manipulate the society. Collectivism eliminates any differences among the citizens of the society and separation of children from their families allows that to happen even more further. Lastly, the separation of people helps the government practice the act of eugenics and create a better, or worse, human race if they desire to do so.
The dictatorship also manages to keep its subjects in line through brainwashing. As Prometheus writes, "Everything which comes from the many is good. Everything which comes from the one is evil. Thus have we been taught with our first breath." Also, as children, the ruled are forced to recite, "By the grace of our brothers are we allowed our lives. We exist through, by and for our brothers," meaning that the only moral justification they have for living is service. By imbuing each subject with the moral premise that the "many" is always good and the "one" is always bad, the dictatorship manages to virtually eliminate any thought of opposition. In opposing the dictatorship, one is opposing the will of all people with one's singular will, and thus is evil. The moral creed that the dictatorship inculcates gives it a moral s...
...ther materialistic indulgences. As children, we begin to grow accustomed to a certain lifestyle. The transition into adulthood can prove to be incredibly challenging if we have an unrealistic expectation of how our needs are met, due to the sense of entitlement our parents instilled. In contrast to the involved parent, the absent parent may neglect several, if not all, of their parental duties, being physically, emotionally and financially absent from their child’s life. This often bears resentment in the child that can transcend long into adulthood. As children, we blame our parents for our misfortunes; the absent parent is no exception. Rather than accept personal responsibility, many often use the absent parent as a scapegoat for not achieving one’s full potential. Whether present throughout our lives or not, Americans have deep rooted parental dependency issues.
Dictatorial leaders would enforce living arrangements of children being taken away from their families because these leaders would want to have a powerful country or society. At a young age these children are being taken away to learn and get ready for a career they will have in the future with no choice about it. The dictatorial leaders like absolute power and always aim for achieving their goals. In Anthem everyone’s career is chosen by the council. The coun...
Dictatorial leaders don’t want parents influencing their children because they know in the end most parents would want to do what is best for their children. Dictatorial leaders want complete control over its citizens. Separating families helps this because once families are separated it makes it easier to teach all the children from a young age the same ideas. To implant the ideas that benefits these leaders to maintain a totalitarian society. Once they enforce the same rules and ideas to the future citizens it’s a way to ensure that it continues through generations. It also reduces the risk of people thinking it is wrong or unfair because the entire community was brought up with the same views on life. Many people woul...
From the moment they are born, the children are placed in homes with other kids their age. They are taught that "we" is the only acceptable word to use when speaking about themselves or their brothers. They are punished when they act out or do transgressions against their brothers. Those who the leaders know are more intelligent and surpassing than the average citizen are treated with cruelty so the will in them is shattered and they think they can't do anything without others with them.
Levine states “a child cannot possibly develop resilience when his parents are constantly at his side, interfering with the development of autonomy, self-management and coping skills” (Levine, 2008 p.77). She says, affluent children don’t have the practical tools needed to survive on their own, they haven’t learned how to deal with problems, and they value others opinions over their own (Levine, 2008 p5). When parents feel like they have to step in to protect the health and welfare of their adolescent child they leave the child feeling disrespected or untrustworthy by their protective parents. (Levine, 2008 P223).
Bullies vs. Dictators When we hear the word “bully”, we normally think of little kids picking on other little kids. However, though bullying is an adolescent phase as well, grown adults can threaten other adults, too. On another note, a dictator, which seems to be an adult bully on a larger scale, misuses their power and controls a nation with a posse. They mostly use violence in order to scare citizens into changing their ways of life. Bullies and dictators are very similar because they use violence, they feel superior in their position and they tend to have their own cliques but they’re different in degree.
It is in a child’s inherent nature to contemplate the meaning of his/her existence. Every child undoubtedly fights the battle to find his/her true identity and their family is a vital element in determining that character. A child unconsciously conforms to ideas exerted around them. A child’s parent exhibits a profound influence, in his/her desire to nurture their child to their apex potential, but it may not necessarily in the best interest of the government. In a society that is based on a totalitarian dictatorship, the government has its own ideal path from which its citizens cannot stray. Therefore, a government curtails the development of a child’s identity by separating the child from its family.
Dictator folks take into account minimal open dialog in the middle of guardian and tyke and anticipate that kids will take after a strict arrangement of tenets and desires. On the off chance that kids challenge the principles or inquire as to why, they are typically told, "On the grounds that I said as much." Children are not normally given the explanations behind the standards and there is no place for any arrangement. Tyrant folks may utilize disciplines rather than results. In spite of the fact that youngsters who grow up with dictator folks have a tendency to take after standards a great part of the time, they may create respect toward oneself issues. At times youngsters get to be antagonistic or forceful as they may concentrate all the more on being furious at their guardians for the discipline instead of figuring out how to settle on choices and understand issues. They as a rule depend on discipline to request dutifulness or show a lesson. While the structure and standards of a tyrant guardian are vital for solid tyke improvement, all great things can be overcompensated. It is vital to offset the gave structure open correspondence so the youngster knows precisely why it is essential for them to take after the principles set before them. Offspring of dictator folks are inclined to having low respect toward oneself, being dreadful or timid, partner
Most studies show that children from authoritarian families may be somewhat well-behaved. But they also tend to be less resourceful, have poorer social skills, and lower self-esteem. Compared with children from authoritative households, children exposed to authoritarian discipline may also achieve less at school.
Imagine yourself in a world where you are constantly having to fear not being able to ever be free from this cage that you've been wanting to get out of for so long. Now imagine that suddenly just being your real life and not just a world that was just imagined, it’s almost too unbearable to think about but this happens. The book “Before We Were Free is a good example of that. The books takes place in the Dominican Republic in the 20th century, when the Dictator at the time was Rafael Trujillo, or in other words El Jefe. Dictators are a ruler with total power over a country, typically one who has obtained power by force. Till this day there are countries that are still ruled by dictators, for example, North Korea However, having a dictator
A dictator is an authoritarian, often totalitarian ruler who assumes sole power over his state. They have an extraordinary amount of personal power, especially the power to make laws without effective restraint by a legislative assembly. Dictators need many essential elements to succeed. There are three elements that the dictator, Napoleon has in the society in Animal Farm. The three essential elements that a dictator needs to succeed are loyal supporters, followers who are ignorant, and a scapegoat.
...ues come with a lot more disadvantages then advantages. Children of authoritarian parents are unhappy, and have low in self-esteem. They receive poor grades in school and they become bullies. These children become dependent and they have a very poor relationship with their parents because they are scared of them.
Parents then base standard rules off of the child’s feelings and assures that the child fully understands why they should follow the rules and what the consequences of breaking them will be. This parenting style creates a strong relationship between the parents and their child allowing the child to mature into an independent person that can make their own decisions. Authoritarian parenting on the other hand requires children to listen to rules without explanation. Parenting of this style requires the children to listen to rules without discussion, and most of the time the parents hardly connect emotionally to their child. The results, as Amy Morin who is a psychotherapist says, “Children who grow up with strict authoritarian parents tend to follow rules much of the time. But, they may develop self-esteem problems” (Morin). In other words, the results of this parenting style cause children to lack in confidence as well as not being sure of their own decision-making skills. Neglectful parenting on the other hand is when the parents are not involved in the child's life. The parents take care of the child's basic needs of survive like food and shelter, but they don't comfort the child or try being in their lives. This can