Gender Concepts In Guyland By Michael Kimmel

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Guyland
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Jens Jeters
3/12/12
Ms. Paez
Soci 101 M/W

“Guyland”
Michael Kimmel investigates “Guyland” where young boys socially interact as “guys”. Michael shows how these young men are stuck between youth and adulthood. As a sociologist at State University of New York of Stony Brook, Michael has perfected his specialty in gender studies. Born in 1951, Michael has published dozens of gender articles and books known in the sociology community. As a spokesperson for the “National Organization for Men Against Sexim (NOMAS), he has lectured over 200 colleges and universities” (stony brook). Guyland was published in 2008 and I will discuss the main points of “who these guys are”, “the babes in Guyland” then conclude why guys socially interact this way.

Exactly who are these boy’s representing Guyland? “Males between 16 and 26 that number …show more content…

In that period of extended adolescence, young men tend to avoid the tasks of growing up or even starting their life-long career’s. Hoffman believes that the expression “boys will be boys” is outdated and an unsafe way to deal with the social interaction of these young boys today. There has to come a point where “we must intervene if we want our boys to become men and not just ‘guys’” (Hoffman). The title can be misleading, and thought to be more focused on the college campus culture. Not so much of the 16 to 26 age gap with all white males- accordingly to …show more content…

Of all the fundamental factors girls, kids, jobs, and teachers that the guys could not have been hassled by. With Kimmel conveying hundreds of interviews across the country, lecturing at hundreds of colleges, he is satisfied with the social gender book,

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