Expectations And Social Expectations

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The Effect of Expectations of Society on Youths

In a majority of cultures, the youth of society learned behaviors and ideals based off of their guardians and role models. Children formed their own personal morals, ethics, and common sense based on their parents or close guardian figures’ actions, which led to either a similar or oppositional belief. Though this taught children fairly quickly, it sometimes left little to the imagination and forced the youth to work for only one reason; to fit in. The early years of a person’s life began their transition and integration into society as adults. The continued struggle to fit in and expectations people put on children and adolescents led to a faster maturation and loss of creativity. In both the …show more content…

Though Dickens and Salinger expressed Pip and Holden with opposite reactions to the standard, it showed the weight society carried on people throughout time. On one side, Holden saw societal standards as “phony” and full of fakes who tried to blend in (Salinger 53). Though Salinger thoroughly expressed the loathing Holden held for the New York society, his actions contradicted his opinions. Salinger used the contradiction to represent the feelings of people and how they expressed their hate for standards and expectations, but still chose to live by them. Like Holden, Pip chose to live by the high standards of society. Pip constantly tried to live up to the “great expectations” many held of him: “Miss Havisham’s intentions towards me, all a mere dream” (Dickens 302). Dickens utilized the rapid change of Pip’s personality throughout his life to warn people how expectations and power changed behavior and what one cared for. Pip and Holden’s different decisions and ideals showed how people continuously strived towards the societal standard. The infatuation people held of societal normalities led to the loss of personal values and beliefs in favor of acceptance from …show more content…

In contrast to Pip, Salinger showed Holden’s family as fairly well off; “My father’s quite wealthy, though. I don’t know how much he makes- he’s never discussed that stuff with me- but I imagine quite a lot” (Salinger 107). Through the usage of an indifferent tone, Salinger illustrated how many youths seemed reluctant to care about money in his own society. Holden continuously spent a fortune on petty things instead of using it for important matters. His indifference towards wealth showed the mindset of many teens during the time and also how easily one spent his or her life away. In contrast to Holden, who lived in a well-off society, Pip came from a fairly low class area. After the introduction to wealth, Dickens expressed the lust many people held for the higher social classes and also for the material “property” they held: “I felt more than ever dissatisfied with my home and with my trade and with everything” (Dickens 110). Pip easily forgot his first happiness with Joe and began to mourn for the wealth and beauty Miss Havisham and Estella held. Dickens used the relationship between Pip and Estella to show how easily people forgot their ideals and love in the face of wealth. Even children became enraptured in the lust for material wealth in society. Both

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