Essay On Our Identity

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When are ideas of our parents, teachers, and friends shaped into our own values and beliefs? As we grow up we are constantly faced with challenges that we sometimes overcome and other times we do not. Each time we approach a new situation we develop a plan for the solution, and whether we succeed or fail shapes how we approach the topic the next time it comes around. In this way, not only how we act around others, but also when noone is watching defines our identity. These actions are formed by our experiences and interactions in our lives, and it can easily change over time to better fit our desires. As humans, we define our own identities by how we live our lives. Our identity is both our actions emotionally and physically. When focusing …show more content…

Julia Freud, a scientist who conducted an experiment on mice, explained that the, “ways in which we live our lives may make us who we are,” and also who we will become in the future (qtd in Castro). We live our lives focused on pleasing others by doing what society considers “acceptable”. Someone who is a vegetarian might eat meat at a business meeting, because they don’t want to be weird, or force the server to find you something else because of your own values. The term “roaming entropy” coined by Freud captures the importance of our actions in defining identity, the more social you are, the more your identity will be focused on pleasing others (Castro). Feud found that there is a correlation between how much time you spend out of the house, and what your personality is. Someone who spends their time at home eating popcorn and watching netflix will have a different identity than someone who spends everyday partying. Also an important part of the people around us is that way they influence our decisions. As kids, we know a small amount of knowledge that the world has to offer, and as we hear others stories, beliefs, and ideas we grow to shape our own opinions. The opinions that we have about people, places, and events shapes how we act, and show ourselves to

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