In this type of parenting, spoiling the children’s behavior by giving bribes and gifts are their parenting tools instead of setting the boundaries and expectations. Parents are often afraid to set limits as they believe child has to be true to his or her own nature (Traunter, 2017). According to research (2009), children under the permissive parenting approach is more likely to display low achievement in many areas and develop other risky behaviors such as drug use and other forms of misconduct. Children under the permissive parenting grow up without the strong sense of self-discipline. Since the parents don’t set the boundaries for the children, they lack the skills in social setting.
And those are caused some negative attitudes of many parents of teenage children imposition and authoritarianism, misunderstanding, disrespect, intolerance, impatience, distrust, fear to be "out of hand" are parents instead of helping the children; exercise new skills like; reflection, critical thinking, reasoning, moral autonomy, privacy, openness to friendship, etc. the parents are engaged with the best intentions to stop them. This not only delay the maturation of their children but also provoke situations of isolation and
A child needs to feel safe having his friends that they can trust not friends that they choice for them. There 's a point where every parent worries about their kids friends, but parents need to learn how to trust them to do the right thing with their friends. The most thing that kids love anything in this world is their parents, kids like when parents show them love without that love can mess up a kid. The reason emotional abuse can happen in a home is because of tension, like money problems or unemployment. When problems like this happens in home, parents take their anger out at their kids.
Furthermore, projecting the fear of letting a child do things on his own is damaging to his mental health. Over-protective parents create continuous situations from which their children struggle to escape, until eventually there is no escape as the fears have become part of the pattern for the child's way of thinking (“Overprotective Parents - Is This Your Parenting Style?” 9). Children of overprotective, rigid parents fail to learn from their mistakes and, therefore, fail to become independent. These parents who live in a state of d... ... middle of paper ... ...Can Make a Kid a Target of Bullies." Overprotective Parents Can Make a Kid a Target of Bullies.
This lack of trust early in life can bring about serious problems later in life, as there is no resolution to the first psychosocial crisis, trust vs. mistrust. For these children exposed to domestic violence, the imaginary monsters that children perceive are not only symbolic representations or a dream. The monsters that children who witness domestic violence have to deal with carry the reflection of their parents. Children who witness domestic violence face a dilemma because the children’s parents are at their most frightening exactly when the child needs them the most. The security of the child is shatter... ... middle of paper ... ... was reported that many children found it difficult to develop friendships for reasons such as holding back from others as well as fear of inviting others to their home (Adams 2006).
Children often handle these experiences in the wrong way. Sometimes, these children try to ignore these painful feelings, which makes it difficult to learn how to cope with them. This behavior may lead to confusion and high stress. Children often become lost in the wavering maze of feeling little or no emotion, then switching to being overwhelmed with emotion and not knowing how to handle their feelings. These children may become psychologically unhealthy due to their emotionally instability (www.childabuse.com).
is Lashing out is used in order to obtain attention that they feel deprived of probably as a cause of neglect from parents. A hostile environment in which they are being exposed to abuse, and drugs because unfortunately they will be affected by it. It is not beneficial by any means for children to be exposed to unconventional behavior such as drug abuse, verbal abuse, and even psychical inflicted pain because children in their earlier years especially are like sponges their mind absorb everything. If they are subjected to a certain behavior from a young age they will think that it is normal. It is important to detect when the well being of children is not being looked in order to prevent permanent psychical and psychological damage
But, with the failure to discover one’s sense of self, the child falls victim to friend’s opinions. This stage is one of the reason’s a child is unable to listen to the parent’s opinion versus the friend’s inviting suggestion. The adolescent is torn between whether the colleague understands the situation because of the age similarities and whether the parent understands clearly enough to give them advice. The child, at this age also sees the parent as the rival or enemy, viewing th... ... middle of paper ... ...es of the parent’s opinion against the friend’s persuasion comes with social cognition, sense of self and also the way the person views the individual giving the advice. If the person views the parent as a nuisance, or thinks the parent cannot understand the problem that the person is facing, the adolescent is more prone to isolate from the guardian.
They wont understand they are being bullied and become afraid. The effect of being bullied or being the bully can be a tragic. Children will sometimes keep the situations to themselves because they become afraid. The child becomes depressed. The depression becomes so intense.
It’s not right to hit your child, while teaching them not to hurt others, it can often confuse them, and that’s when they start to make up their own rules. “Spanking teaches your child to fear you -- not to listen to you or respect you. He may also be humiliated and resentful, and retaliate by being uncooperative.” Spanking teaches your child that they should fear adults, and if they fear adults, how are they going to advance? How are they going to get guidance from you and family, or teachers in school? Spanking your child affects their whole life, and not in a good way.