Nurturing A Child

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Calculating the total number of births around the world is a struggled statistic that even big organizations like UNICEF or World Health Organization fail to conclude. There is only an estimate that can be made based on the data collected worldwide as to how many children are born every day. The speculated reason is, not all the births get registered and not all the newborns survive. Imagine, how many of the children born every day will get a decent quality of life? How many of those born will actually survive their infancy and mature to other life stages? How many will actually experience their first sight, their first laugh, their first step and many other first’s in their life? It is extremely hard to say, however, I am sure you will agree …show more content…

Just like a seedling needs care and support to grow into a plant, an independent tree; a child needs care and support to develop into a successful man or a woman. It is observed that children who are given the much required love and support in early stages of life develop a good understanding in general. “Nurturing a child early in life may help him or her develop a larger hippocampus, the brain region important for learning, memory and stress responses” (Castro). Unfortunately, many children left in orphanages and foster homes do not get this entitlement. In the orphanages, these children have no one to belong to as a son or as a daughter. In foster homes, although they get the support from the foster family, fostering is limited to judicial custody which could be short term or long term. Adoption, on the other hand is a legal process of transferring parental rights and responsibilities of the child to the adopting family, as per various definition results from Google. In adoption, the child gets the legal surname of the adopting family which creates belongingness and has a significant effect on the child’s identity. These children waiting in orphanages and government funded foster homes are “in desperate need of loving families that could protect them, satisfy their basic needs, and help them overcome the dversit[ies]” (Friedrich …show more content…

Adoption and its notion’s has evolved with time. “The practices and policies relating to adoption are constantly changing and continuing to shape how families are formed” (Ishizawa and Kazuyo 647). Adoption is no longer perceived indifferently in the society and families are going beyond their cultures and race to adopt children. It will be worth to mention that most of the celebrities endorse cross cultural adoption. While some may argue that they adopt children to garner public interest, some insist they adopt to support children in need; I view it positively. You and I always talk about how the world is becoming smaller and similar since people from different cultural backgrounds come together and create diverse families. We both know so many people in our social network who belong to different ethnicities and their offspring’s are diverse. The reflection of cultural similarities has grown quite large and so its accommodation in the society has become imperative and equally useful. With adoption, we will have a choice of preserving our cultural characteristics by adopting a child from our racial background or we will have an opportunity of creating a diverse family by adopting from a different ethnicity. This will personify the spirit of diversity, and our strong values of equality for

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