Relationships In The Working Theory Of Caryl Rusbult And John Martz

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The article I read was a correlation study about abusive relationships. The editorial looked for reasons to figure out what makes a person want to stay with an abusive partner even though they know the abusers actions are not acceptable. The main theory that Caryl Rusbult and John Martz had was focused through the investment model which stated that satisfaction level, quality of alternatives and investment size along with level of commitment all play major roles as to whether the women will stay with or leave their partner. The authors had three hypotheses, but the main one I will be focusing on is based off of the Investment Model which explains that one’s satisfaction level, quality of alternatives, investment size and commitment level all …show more content…

An analysis of the results revealed that there was a positive correlation in the data because those who have high satisfaction, commitment and investment levels with lower quality of alternatives made them more likely to return to their spouses within twelve months of leaving the shelter; while those who had lower levels of satisfaction, commitment and investment with higher alternatives were less likely to return to their offensive partner which describes the main reason as to why women choose to stay in these abusive relationships. From class, this article related a lot to attachment styles. The styles revealed that those in abusive relationships are in more avoidant and fearful associations since the women seem to be scared of their partner due to the way they are treated. I find myself extremely lucky to be in a secure attachment in my relationship with my partner. We have a secure attachment style since we have been dating two and a half years and are both very trusting and focus on building one another up, not tearing

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