Reflection On Nature Vs Nurture

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It was several weeks ago, that the class discussed the polarized concept of nature vs. nurture, by which nature refers to one’s inclination to rely on natural instinct or self-interest to determine their future as opposed to nurture in which one relies on the care and influence of family. Dr. Miller challenged us to consider the ratio in which nature and nurture determine our actions. I self-concluded a rough 3:1 ratio where the nurturing effects by friends and family determined a majority of my actions. I now realize that for a majority of my life my choices were heavily influenced by those closest to me with only rarely taking a moment to know what I wanted. In my childhood I took great influence from my older brother by going into the same …show more content…

It was my chemistry teacher that influenced me into majoring in Chemistry. In my freshmen year of college, when my roommates asked if I wanted to go somewhere or do something my typical response was “Sure, I don’t care.” I had almost always let others choose my actions. After reading the AFAM 2000 autobiographies this semester, I realized the weakness behind such reliance on outside influence. From the readings, it was typically a forced disconnect from family and childhood friends, or a willful disconnect in the case of Anne Moody, that set a future path to reliance on their own nature. Reliance on self and natural instinct allowed their path for truth and equality to be determined by themselves and themselves only. Such a reliance, more developed by experience, proved to be a powerful force in their quest for mass influence. In the words of Kendrick Lamar, "I spent the first twenty-three years of my life searching for answers, till one day I realized I had to come up with my own." I realize now that though the influence of friends, family, teachers might be beneficial in progressing my life, I must not make it what they are a part of

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