The Importance Of Manhood

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Manhood Rahiem Thompson

What we consider to be a man in this generation has been twisted and torn apart. Manhood was once, making mistakes, learning from them, and becoming a better person. Now manhood has become disrespecting females, being a liar and a cheater to look cool. It might just be because I 'm young and the people around me are taking their time to mature but it 's not cool.
The disrespect in this generation has jumped to an all time high. Is it too much to ask for young men to just be leaders and not followers? I blame the media, those hip hop music videos with the half naked girls and throwing around money seems too appealing to young, fresh, highly influenced minds. Im not saying that we should completely get rid of these things but sometimes the directors should consider who their real audiences are. Manhood has become something that it really should not be. I 've witnessed it first hand young men and women being told what …show more content…

It means getting things done when they are supposed to be done and not putting them off until the last minute like a boy. We can improve this lazy behavior but it 's easier said than done. It makes it easy to jump to a task when you 've been doing it from a young age. Manhood starts when you leave the parents nest. The day you become independent and you have to start making life choices is when you become a man. This is the turning point between a great man and weak man. A great man seizes every great opportunity he gets. That doesn 't mean partying, it means getting higher education pushing yourself to do better not wasting your time chasing the wrong things. A weak man is a man that wastes his time and puts all his efforts into the wrong things. He wastes his money on material things like shoes or video games, although those things are great to have they should never be put on a scale weighing against paying bills and taking care of a

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