The Importance Of Love In Othello

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Shakespeare’s play Othello reveals a lot about human nature and our definition of love. In this play the main romance is the uncommon live of Othello (a moor) and Desdemona (a socialite). The question of her loyal is brought up a lot as Iago tries to convince Othello that she is cheating on him. In reality it is not a question of her loyalty and love for Othello but it is Othello’s love for her. Othello cares more about himself than Desdemona and the love he does have is ultimately self-centered.
If a hand is raised against their loved one. Do they really love that person? That is a question we must ask about Othello and his abuse on Desdemona. Calling her names, and hitting her shows how little he values her as a person. Othello ends up hitting …show more content…

Othello on the other hand does not care for Desdemona enough to try and talk to her instead he plots to murder her. If Othello actually did care then he would have talked to her at any moment in time. Instead the moment he sees her he says, “Give me your hand. This hand is moist my lady.” (3, 4, 33). It was thought that a damp sweaty palm meant that person was sexual aware. He insults her instead to talking to her to even get confirmation that she even did cheat. Othello later asks for Desdemona’s handkerchief and instead of explaining that someone accused her of adultery and her missing the small cloth is the only argument he has for it. He just repeats, “The handkerchief! ... The handkerchief! ... The handkerchief!” (3, 4, 86, 88, 90). Over and over again because he did not tell Desdemona about this accusation. If Othello cares for Desdemona he would have told her hoping she could explain why she was missing the handkerchief or actually talk about her unfaithfulness. Instead he only cared about the thought of her cheating and Iago mentioning the handkerchief was enough for Othello to stop caring about Desdemona’s side. Love needs trust and communication. If someone only cares about honor is show by how they trust others, how quick they are to change sides or how hard they are willing to defend a person.
In conclusion, Othello cares more about himself than Desdemona as the love he does possess is mainly self-centered. His love is shallow and vain because of the horrible treatment he gave, plotting to murder her at the first sign of betrayal. He does not even try to talk to her and he love her because she pitied his stories. Love should not be built off of one sided stories but off of experiences together, and caring for them because of their personality and not of

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