Theme Of Hermia In A Midsummer Night's Dream

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Hermia is in love with Lysander, however her father does not care. He wants her to marry Demetrius and at the beginning of Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream it seems as though he is never going to change his mind and allow his daughter to choose the person she wants to spend the rest of her life with. As her father it is his right to choose whom she marries, and if he does not find a suitable suitor he is the one that will be taking care of his daughter for the rest of his life, and she would then become the responsibility of another male relative, until they either find a suitor for her, or she dies. The entire premise of this Shakespearian comedy revolves around Hermia and her love for a man her father does not approve of, and the fact …show more content…

This only becomes an issue when the issue that we never find out why Egeus does not approve of Lysander arises. As stated above we the audience are never told why he prefers Demetrius over Lysander, and even at the end of the play when Demetrius decides that he is in love with Helena, after the nectar is put into his eyes, and Lysander is back in love with Hermia, after having the magic removed from him, Egeus decides to sanction the marriage of his daughter to the man she loves. Meaning there was no large issue as to why Hermia should not marry Lysander other than her father preferred another man. Although he did not seem to have a concrete reason as to why he wanted things to be done the way that he did, as her father he still had the right to make Hermia do as he wanted regarding her marriage. It makes one think why her father did not want her to be happy with a man that seemed to have the means to provide for her and truly loved …show more content…

Parental authority is not what it used to be, many teenagers and young adults no longer respect what their parents want for their lives. This is because they believe they know what is best for them. Although these people are able to make their own mistakes and learn from them, when it comes to something as serious as marriage, having a parent aid one in the decision making proses could help with the increased divorce rate. People seem to forget that when they marry someone you are not only impacting your life and theirs but the lives of your family, this new person is now planning on being a permanent member of your family and no one but you and them were able to decide if this is what should happen. Egeus knew that the man his daughter would marry would become his son by marriage and therefore he wanted to make sure that he liked and approved of the man she decided to spend the rest of her life with. Someone Hermia could love, someone Egeus could get along with and someone that could provide for his daughter and their future family is what Egeus cared about when it came to choosing a spouse for his daughter. Although all of this seemed to go through his mind, he did not fully think about what his daughter wanted in the moment but what she could one day grow to be okay with. Finding a happy medium between the involvement parents once had

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