Why We Sign Up For Gym Memberships But Never Go To The Gym

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Let's say I have a friend named Mitch. Mitch tries and tries to attract any female he can, but he gets rejected all the time. His problem? He doesn't meet their physical requirements. He is overweight and doesn't have a chance of getting that perfect muscular body anytime soon. Knowing this is the reason for his rejections is very unsettling. It lowers his self-esteem and he no longer feels confident enough to roam the streets. He feels ugly and unnatural. Comparing himself to the guy in the magazine makes him feel worthless and unsatisfied with himself. He becomes stressful, and he is pressured into getting a better body. When exercising and working out doesn't get him results fast, he tries other things. After trying a number of fad diets, …show more content…

All of this a result of a chain reaction caused by society's unreasonable body expectations. Ultimately, body expectations are harmful and provoke negative emotions and effects on people who do not meet them. When those affected by body standards do take action, it is costly to achieve. The most common forms of taking action are working out at a gym, and plastic surgery. In an article titled “Why We Sign Up For Gym Memberships But Never Go To The Gym”, Stacie Smith writes that a gym named Planet Fitness charges "between $10 and $20 per month" with on "average, 6500 members per gym. Most of the gyms can hold around 300 people. Planet Fitness can do this because it knows that members won't show up". Basically, the gym knows that most people will put off going to the gym, or will start to give up on it and stop going. This is why even though thousands of people are subscribed to a gym, the gym can only hold about one-twentieth of its members at one time. Combine the cost of everyone in one gym, there are upwards of ten thousand dollars being spent, with only a portion of that money being worth it. However, there is a second route for …show more content…

But how can body expectations be bad when they motivate people to work harder at getting the ideal body? One cannot doubt, that some people definitely have a story about using body standards for motivation. For example, my dad was overweight, and you could tell just by looking at his stomach protrude through his shirt. He wanted to look better and more fit, as he was in the market for finding a girlfriend to settle down with, and with a little hard work and time, he lost the majority of that excess fat. So, back to the question, if body standards help people, how are they bad? Well, this story does not apply to most, it only applies to a very small portion of those affected by expectations. Those who do not take action are likely to get really hurt and have a lower self-esteem and confidence level. Those who do take action will most likely not get the results they want in the time they want and will turn to unhealthy fad-diets, substance abuse, and other methods to get that lean body. Some who do get the results they want may have a distorted view and over-exercise or under-eat, causing more damage. Almost all of these results are unhealthy and can cause injury or even death. A study titled “Prevalence of BDD” talks about body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), where it says that BDD affects “1.7% to 2.4% of the general population — about 1 in 50 people". This number could be higher since many people are reluctant to unveil

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