Who Is Miss Havisham Affected By Love?

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Love is not just a feeling, or a passion, but it is a life changing event in which everyone experiences, some for the better, and some for the worse. In Charles Dickens’s novel, Great Expectations, Miss Havisham is the character most affected by love. The aftermath of Miss Havisham being left at the altar is a direct connection to the theme of this novel that love changes people. Heart-broken and devastated Miss Havisham recalls the time that she was stood up at the altar in remembrance she stops all her clocks within her home all at the same time. “This man pursued Miss Havisham closely, and professed to be devoted to her.” “She was too haughty and too much in love to be advised by anyone.” “The marriage day was fixed, the wedding dresses were bought, the wedding tour was planned out, …show more content…

“He came back to where I stood, and again held out both his hands. Not knowing what to do - for, in my astonishment I had lost my self-possession - I reluctantly gave him my hands. He grasped them heartily, raised them to his lips, kissed them, and still held them. ‘You acted noble, my boy,’ said he. ‘Noble, Pip! And I have never forgot it!’ At a change in his manner as if he were even going to embrace me, I laid a hand upon his breast and put him away. ‘Stay!’ said I. ‘Keep off! If you are grateful to me for what I did when I was a little child, I hope you have shown your gratitude by mending your way of life. If you have come here to thank me, it was not necessary. Still, however you have found me out, there must be something good in the feeling that has brought you here”The love that Pip has for Estella soon starts to go downhill. Estella’s stance brings Pip to an edge losing dedication and aspiration destroying the love that Pip always seemed to have towards

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