The Friendship: Thomas Jefferson And John Adams

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Chapter six, The Friendship, is focused on the reconciliation of two lifelong best friends: Thomas Jefferson and John Adams. The two did not have contact for many years until Jefferson’s daughter, Maria Jefferson Eppes died during childbirth. Abigail wrote a letter to Jefferson expressing her sorrow, and Jefferson took the letter as an opportunity to resume friendly relations with the Adams. Many more people are involved, such as Benjamin Rush and Edward Coles who both helped to usher the way for Jefferson and Adams to renew their friendship. After many apologies and acceptances of differences, Jefferson and Adams do resume their lifelong friendship. It can furthermore be concluded that part of the reason each individual took so long to …show more content…

It is very rare to find an individual with the same motives and beliefs as another individual. For this reason, we as contemporary readers can learn from Jefferson and Adams’ friendship that acceptance is the most important piece in making a friendship thrive. The political interactions revealed in this chapter are similar to the ones in contemporary society because relationships are constantly torn apart by politics. In fact, this phenomenon is so prevalent that it occurs in the course of a typical day for both politics and people with careers and hobbies totally unrelated to politics. Jefferson and Adams essentially are symbolic of these friendships and how politics are dangerous in the sense that they can destroy friendships. However, the interactions in this chapter are different than the ones in contemporary society. This is also seen through Adams and Jefferson’s friendship. For starters, in the time of both of their presidencies, Jefferson and Adams served as vice presidents to one-another. It is essentially unheard of in contemporary society to have a president and a vice president with completely different political views, mainly because in today’s time, political candidates are able to pick their vice presidents. Secondly, Jefferson and Adams lived in a time where communication over long distances was difficult. Likewise, both understood that their private letters to …show more content…

Prior to opening correspondence with Adams, Jefferson wrote letters with Adams wife for years in an attempt to resume friendly communication. Jefferson’s determination for friendship can serve as an ideal model for many situations because it emphasizes friendship over everything. This is proven through the sheer fact that Jefferson did not have to resume friendly contact with Abigail after she wrote him. Jefferson could have easily thanked her for her condolences and moved on. However, Jefferson chose to respond and work to build a friendship. Similarly, Jefferson could have easily ended his responses and all communication with the Adams. Jefferson wrote mainly to Abigail for years before he began writing to John. Jefferson had ample opportunities to end communication; however, he persisted to rekindle the friendship and keep a friendly tone with the Adams. On the other hand, Jefferson could not avoid the fact that his previous accusations about Adams from his 1800 presidency came back to haunt him. For example, a letter Jefferson wrote in 1801 attacking Adams was made public. This letter slowed the progress of the friendship between Jefferson and Adams. Likewise, another particular event Jefferson could not ,avoid was how long it took to resume his friendship with Adams. Although Jefferson was ready to reunite with Adams (figuratively), Adams

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