Jerry and his parents will be present for the first session. This will be my opportunity to observe them all together. I will use this session to explain the counseling process and my theoretical approach. Since they have no background in counseling, I will be sure to answer any questions they have. I will also carefully review how confidentiality will be handled. I will tell them that I will share how counseling is going overall, but not the specifics of what Jerry, or any individual family member, tells me in session (Oaklander, 2007; Patterson, Williams, Edwards, Chamow, & Grauf-Grounds, 2009). After I am sure they understand and consent to the overall process and approach, I will ask one of them to describe the problem. As the parents talk, …show more content…
Initially, I will want to be sure he understands how the process will proceed, and to answer any of his questions. I will make it clear that he can say anything that is on his mind, and that he can ask about anything he is curious about. I fully expect some resistance, and will use more projective techniques initially. These will include drawing and painting, and possibly clay work. I will likely use puppets if Jerry is overly uncomfortable in direct role playing exercises (Oaklander, 2007). Depending on Jerry’s maturity level, and communication skills, we may move to more open interactions in later sessions, like those one might find in traditional talk therapy, but only if the circumstances are right. My primary objectives will be to understand the issues Jerry is facing, and to help him become more self-aware. My intuition from the first session with his parents, is that Jerry will need work building his self-confidence. He needs to overcome his fears about what others might be thinking about him. I believe he will benefit greatly from having his experiences normalized (Corey, 2013). He will also likely need help building up his contact skills. This is not uncommon with shy children (Oaklander, 2007). We will need to delve into the behaviors that are concerning his parents, particularly what is driving his choice of friends. It will be important to explore if he is feeling different or unworthy. Virtually all of these things …show more content…
The reality is that I just did not know myself well enough when I was 20 years old. My first wife and I paid a heavy price for those life lessons. Yet, the four parents have found ways to become genuine friends, much to the benefit of our older two children. What I am most moved by in this exercise, is the belief that I could have been helped sooner. And therefore, it is possible to help others experience life more fully, and hopefully sooner. The Jerry of those days, while long gone, still has impacts of me to this day. The reality is that I still occasionally find myself nervous about putting myself out three. And while I still loathe the feeling of rejection, I am much more likely to push through the
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The framework for the therapist to establish interventions could suggest help both child a parents identify appropriate skills and behaviors. This crucial stage deals with the youth begins recognizing his or her identity. Therapist can teach the parents how to be good listeners and be mindful of their reactions to the youth’s emotional needs. The five stage is the adolescent (identity vs. role) Her the youth is more in tune with their identity or struggle with acceptance and interpersonal conflict if the parent neglects to listen, give room for growth (freedom), teach responsibilities. If a youth is unable to deal with the stressors of maturing, they will indeed transfer a lot of emotions to others. The therapist will have the opportunity to conduct family sessions that will aide the youth and parents in learning active listening skills, becoming sensitive to the youth establishing or managing the challenges of growing into their identity. The sixth stage depicts young adulthood (intimacy vs. isolation). Youth will struggle here if again there was a lack of love rendered from parents and subsequently they will fail to build intimate relationship. This can also be true if parents refuse to allow the young person have some control and responsibility
Coined by theorist Sigmund Freud, the psychodymanic approach to therapy revolves around the interaction between the conscious and the unconscious. It is believed that the mind is made up for three entities; the Id, Ego,& Superego. The id is known for its pleasure seeking drive and impulsiveness. Often referred to as the “devil on your shoulder” the id exhibits very little self control and is often linked with the unconscious mind. Driven by sex, violence, and impulsivity, the id has been known to encourage risky behavior that normally would not occur. If the id were dominant, a person would behave in a devious, and socially unacceptable manner. Contrary to the id, the superego acts as the “angel on ones shoulder”. As stated in Day,2008, “when the superego is in charge, we are perfectionistic and uptight and demand too much of ourselves.” The superego acts as the conscience by reflecting social standards learned through observation. When the superego is allowed to take control, it sets such high expectations and demands, that is is too difficult to reach such high standards. The only way to stop the pendulum of the psyche from swinging to either extreme is the presence of the ego. The ego is the mediator between the superego and the id, providing moral reasoning and the principal of reality. The reality principle acknowledge that one must not act out id impulses, but also realizes that one cannot live up to the demands of the superego (Day, 2008). The ego helps moderate between these two extremes with the use of defense mechanisms.
As a social worker it is often complex to determine which theory to employ in practice, each client will warrant for an in-debt assessment of the presenting problem and goals the client desires to achieve. This paper will explore one family intervention model that can be applied to the Taylor family. The two theories analyzed are Cognitive Behavioral Family Theory, (CBFT) and Structural Family Theory (SFT); both theories can be utilized when assisting individuals or families. The social worker will focus on the Cognitive Behavioral Family Therapy model when applying treatment and interventions to the Taylor family case.
The 18-year-old student from Illinois State High School, Kevin was referred to the student counselling service by his football coach. The concerns were that Kevin was having difficulties focusing and playing well, with generalised issues about low mood. Additionally, Kevin has a diagnosis of major depressive disorder where feelings of inadequacy and a perception of worthlessness are the presenting themes.
Understanding the counseling session from the client’s perspective is a very important aspect in the development of a therapeutic relationship. A clinician must be an excellent listener, while being to pay attention to the client’s body language, affect and tone. The dynamics in the counseling session that is beneficial to the client include the recognition of the pain that the client is feeling. The detrimental part of this includes a misunderstanding of the real issues, a lack of consideration of the cultural aspects of the client, and a lack of clinical experience or listening skills. In this presentation, we will discuss the positive and negative aspects of the counseling session from the client’s perspective which includes the client’s attitudes, feelings, and emotions of the counseling session. We will next examine the propensity of the client to reveal or not reveal information to the counselor, and how transference, and counter-transference can have an effect on the counselor-client relationship.
There is this saying, “Everything happens for a reason” and I believe certain things do. I believe that everything I have gone through my life has been preparing me for the beginning of a great career. This world can be a scary place, but there is also beauty in this world with lots of opportunities, and people who want to help make a difference. I want to be one of those people who inspire others to do better, to guide them and to teach them to not give up. If it was not for my counselors and mentors I would not be where I am at today. I was able to accomplish one of my goals of being the first in my family to graduate with my Bachelor’s degree in Sociology from CSULA. I want to further my education to better myself, and help others along the way.
The counseling session began with the introductions where I introduced myself as the counselor and later introduced my client. This stage is important in any counseling session since it is the time of exploration and focusing according to Gerard Egan as quoted by Wright (1998) in his essay on couselling skills. It is in this session that I was able to establish rapport and trust with my client in order to come up with a working and fruitful relationship with him. During this stage I made use of skills like questioning, where I would pose a question directly to my client, sometimes I would choose to just listen to what the client wanted to speak out while in some instances I would be forced to paraphrase the question if I felt the client did not understand the question I had asked previously. There were also other times when I would reflect through silence. During such a period, I got time to study the client and the information he had given. This being a difficult area, since some clients may not be able to volunteer information to you as the counselor, I decided to assure the client of confidentiality of any information he was willing to share with me with a few exceptions which I also told him about. Being open to him about the only times the information may not be confidential was part of my building rapport and establishing trust with him. I therefore, decided to ask the client what information he wanted to share with me and lucky enough he was ready to speak to me about different issues that he was going through.
HS 43 Term Paper 4 Core functions of a Substance Abuse Counselor By Roslyn Smith Introduction This paper will discuss the following 4 Core Functions of a Counselor: Case Management, Client Education, Crisis Intervention, Referral and their primary purposes. Discussion Case Management According to IC & RC, Case Management is defined as, “activities intended to bring services, agencies, resources, or people together within a planned framework of action toward the achievement of established goals.
Nichols, M. P. (2011). The essentials of family therapy. Boston, Ma.: Allyn and Bacon. (Original work published 5th)
In order to be an effective counselor, one must remember to keep the client(s) in mind. The goal is to assist the client(s) in living the best life possible for that particular person or persons. With that being said, one cannot forget that they have their own set of morals, values, ideas, and the like. Social workers have to keep in mind that there will be cases that are complex and a favorable outcome may not be possible. In the instance that I am confronted with an issue that conflicts with my religious beliefs, I plan on assisting the client as much as possible by adhering the National Association of Social Work Code of Ethics, NASW standards for the Practice of Clinical Social Work, and discussing my concerns with my supervisor while
It is imperative to study counseling theories when beginning field based work. Counseling theories provide a foundation to be able to learn and develop my own techniques. Some ideas that exemplify the significance of counseling theories are; research, application of theories, and case studies.
One aspect I found striking was the role of advice giving in counseling. Prior to this class, I knew that counselors did not typically give opinions or advice to lead a client in a certain direction. What I did not know was the entire reasoning behind this. A counselor might avoid giving advice so that a client learns to make his/her own decisions, does not become dependent on the counselor, and to ensure that a client will not later blame the counselor if the counselor’s advice did not turn out well. In this context, I have a better appreciation and understanding of why therapists refrain from telling the client what to do.