I feel like I have wasted 14 years, 4 months, and 24 days of my life waiting for him to change. Every night lying in bed, terrified, paralyzed by fear, praying that God would allow something to happen to me while protecting my children that would wake him up as to what he has right in front of him. Sleeping next to him every night feeling alone and wondering if this was normal. I kept blaming myself for not being good enough and that forced me to sacrifice more and more to win him over, hoping that I would one day be good enough. I never realized that I was in love with a fake person who never truly loved me anyways. He only loved controlling me.
I often found us discussing the same issues over and over, I plead with him to get help and
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Carino and I. During this assessment, Mr. Carino stated that he had a Government Contract job. He also stated that he did not care if I moved out of state but if that is the case, he will take the kids all summer, all the holidays for the rest of the year, because I was the one who prevented him that time with the children over the last few years. Again, I don’t think Mr. Carino can face the fact that he has been incarcerated the majority of that time and when he was not, he was harassing and terrorizing us. It was not MY behavior or My choices that have kept him from the children, it was his own. Mr. Carino’s narcissism will not allow him to see reality, nor will it allow him to stop this …show more content…
This is evident of Mr. Carino’s sense of entitlement. He honestly believes that it was HIS authority to decide whether a police involved shooting was justified? Yes, he was a Deputy at the time. However, he was on Administrative Reassignment stemming from an Internal Affairs Investigation because of his assault on me! What sense does it make for the Sheriff’s Office to base the justification off what Mr. Carino says? He had NEVER been an investigator, nor was he even assigned to duty at the time. If this incident occurred in 2014 and it is now 2016 and Mr. Carino made this “Manifesto” public in April of this year, there is no reasonable way to believe that his treatment is really working at this level. How am I supposed to feel safe with my children when he is making no progress?
...erall, I think that this interview has taught me that every law enforcement officer have a different opinion and it should be voiced. Mr. Cayette told me exactly how he felt without holding back. It was different just listening to the responses because it was said by an actual officer instead of just another ordinary person expressing how they feel. The interview also made me realize that people cannot be mad at every police officer for one police officer’s wrong doing. According to National Law Enforcement Memorial Fund, “There are more than 900,000 sworn law enforcement officers now serving in the United States, which is the highest figure ever. About 12 percent of those are female.” People should stop listening to the media all the time because it does convince people to hate police officers because there are many police officers in the U.S. with good intentions.
well as his emotions) and made him almost obsessive compulsive about wasting food or money. He has a
In USA Today, “it mentions how a Balch Springs law enforcement officer named Officer Roy Oliver was fired for violating the Balch Springs Police department’s policy. USA Today also mentions how, Dallas law enforcement officers were responding to a report of a party that had intoxicated teens when the local officers heard shots being fired. USA Today said that Officer Jonathan Haber reported that the car was backing up towards them and that is when the police officer Roy Oliver shot a 15 year old boy named Jordan Edwards who was a passenger in the car in the head with a rifle killing him. However, USA Today mentions how Haber quickly changed his story after viewing the dash cam video of the scene showing the car backing up, but then moving forward and driving away from the scene when the victim, Jordan Edwards was shot. In other words, as the car was driving away this is when Officer Roy Oliver fired his gun towards the vehicle, killing the victim Jordan Edwards. USA Today then mentions how the chief of police stated that what was shown in the dash cam of the scene was a violation of the policies and values of the Balch Springs Police Department. Lastly,
Throughout history there has been many problems involving racial profiling and police misconduct. Very rarely do police get the proper punishment for their wrong doings. One of the most recent cases was the Oscar Grant case. Oscar Grant was 22 years old when he was killed because of police misconduct. He was killed on New Year’s Day 2009 by Ex-BART cop Johannes Mehserle. This misconduct made the people of Oakland extremely angry because they lost one of their own. After the shooting many people around Oakland started protesting. This lasted for months on end because people were very angry. Bystanders videotaped the incident. This has been one of the most racially polarizing cases in California (Ravindhran).
There are many things that have molded me into the person I am today such as being born into a family with four children. With three siblings, I have been forced to be able to work out problems from stealing each other’s toys to having to rush to the emergency room to get stiches because my brother chased me around the house and I tripped. My mother, father, brother, and two sisters were all born in Pennsylvania and I am the odd ball and I was born in Adrian, Michigan. From when I was a child I always loved being involved with sports because of my competitive nature. I grew up playing soccer and having success with that but then my love changed and I began playing lacrosse and football. I started playing lacrosse in middle school and played
Police officers should not be shooting their own children! Especially, just for a vodka replacement. It is just so unnecessary. Police officer Leuser shoots his own son after son switches his vodka with water. Son remains in hospital in critical condition and is in need of many surgeries. All of this happened to the poor boy because of his innocent error in his life. The worst thing is that it was caused by a police officer. Police officers are the ones that are supposed to be stopping crime, not making it. Police officer Leuser’s act is disrespectful to the community. No, officer should be in duty after doing such a fatal thing. The police officer should spend all his life in prison after hurting his own son. He did not have any compassion
Police corruption is a difficult issue cities have to deal with and one of the oldest problems in the police force. Corruption can be defined as the mistreatment of public power for personal benefit or private and the use of excessive force, either emotional or physical. In this essay I will explain in detail federal indictments of Los Angeles County Sheriff officers for mistreatment of jail inmates and visitors. Another topic I will explain is the transfer of Los Angeles County Sheriff hired officers with questionable background. Finally, I will end by analyzing the hiring of new Sheriff deputies under the “Friends of the Sheriff” program.
Police officers have made an oath to protect and serve every individual within the states no mater their ethnicity or beliefs, but are they protecting and serving, or profiling and shooting. Although some police abuse their power not all, until the police statistics about misconduct begin to shape up, many people will not know if they can trust them. There are many different ways a police officer can abuse their power; excessive force and abuse are just two major ways. The term excessive force is hard to define; however, it can be defined as the use of force greater than that which a reasonable and prudent law enforcement officer would use under the circumstances is generally considered to be excessive. The frequency of police use-of-force events that may be defined as justified or excessive is difficult to estimate. There is no national database of officer-involved shootings or incidents in which police use excessive force. Most agencies keep such records, but no mechanism exists to produce a national estimate. (Police Use of Force.) This makes it very hard to put into context how often this happens, but it does happen quite a bit. Police do also abuse their power by sexual misconducts. Sexual misconduct is 10.4% of all reported misconducts by an officer. (2010 Q3 National Police Misconduct Statistical
When one thinks of police misconduct many not too distant stories might go through our heads. Most adults will remember how they felt when they saw the brutal beating of Rodney King on their local news station; or the outrage they experienced when they heard that the evidence in the OJ Simpson trial had been tampered with. But thanks to new guidelines, procedures and even civilian groups who now “police” the police, instances of police misconduct may soon start seeing a decline.
Police are rarely held accountable for their wrong doing actions. As I mentioned above only 27 of 80 officers have been convicted, with only one convicted of murder for police brutality. Police are seen as a form of power and abuse that privilege. Officer’s do what they want knowing that they will not be held accountable. Police Officer’s beat people, shoot people and harm people (abuse of power) and blame it on the civilian they are harming. Most of the time the police officer’s will be believed over the civilian. When police officer’s abuse their power this leads to lack of trust between police officers and civilians. This also leads to lack of trust between police officers and communities. This divides us and makes us afraid of one another. Stress in police officer’s also causes police brutality. Stress can come from the civilians and the pressure of the job making officer’s take out all of their anger and aggression on civilians. Police brutality causes people and communities to be vulnerable. People become vulnerable to police officers because they are powerless. The officers take power over us, make us helpless, defenseless and weak at the time of a police brutality attack. In order to stop police brutality, the state and local governments must come together to reevaluate the officer’s code of conduct, enforce new rules and regulations for the officers and hold officers accountable for their actions of wrong doing. According to, Police Brutality is Getting Worse and Shows No Signs of Slowing Down, the only way to stop police brutality is to have officer’s wear body cameras, a complete overhaul on how law enforcement handles mentally ill men, women, and children and truly independent, powerful review boards for all police misconduct. According to others, some of the changes should consist of more community police, more foot patrols and engagement with residents. Police brutality will
Sources state that “Oliver was also indicted on four counts of aggravated assault by a public servant for firing his rifle into a car full of teenagers leaving a party April 29. Jordan, who sat in the front passenger seat, was struck in the head. His two brothers and two friends were also in the car.” The chief of the Balch Springs police department, Jonathan Haber said, “ the Chevrolet Impala was aggressively reversing toward Oliver and Officer Tyler Gross”. However the evidence provided by the body camera contradicted what the chief stated. This cop`s actions of course got him “indicted Monday on a murder charge by a Dallas County grand jury.” Apparently this cop already had some incidents, for example, “Oliver was also indicted last month
... addition waiting to punish the officer if the police department chose to do so would be the best course of action because if they do it before the cases are dismissed they may give the lawsuits merit to go to court. This would waste a lot of money and the officer and police department would be win but they could avoid wasting time and money by just delaying the decision on the punishment until after the lawsuits has been taken care of. Legally the officer and police station are not liable but ethically and morally they have a duty and responsibility to help both families in anyway they can without incriminating themselves. The final recommendation would be to get the lawsuits and legal liable dismissed with the Statute mentioned previously and then using good morals and ethics help both families and the officer in any way that can after this traumatic incident.
...s and was generally abusive to almost everyone around him. He was a tough guy to get along with and he and I had our own problems throughout the years. In the end Phillip decided to go into the military to get away from his parents. The military straightened Philip up and when he came back his parents were actually very proud of him. His dad eventually got cleaned up too and things have never been better for Phillip.
Dr. D is a cardiothoracic surgeon. He was my hero. He may well still be, even though he is a throw-back to the days when I was more concerned about science than symbolism.
because I understand he has a problem. The key when you are dealing with someone with