Personal Experience: The Oedipus Stage

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Personal Experience: Brief Introduction: This is a brief explanation on how the genital Oedipal stage (Oedipus complex) can see seen in the day-to-day life situations. The Genital Oedipal stage happens during the age 3-6 years old which is in early childhood phase in the form of physical acknowledgement that the child seeks from both parent, such as the child wants both mother/father to acknowledge him in a desirable way that both accept him from the physical perspective. At a later stages of life starting from the adolescence the genital Oedipal is represented in all type of human relationship and also shown in sexuality between couples. For instance when a person is having a competitive behavior with his boss at work because the boss is giving him a challenging task to do so he is under the perception that the boss is punishing him plus the boss is more powerful with higher authority, this situation between the person and his boss is an example showing the existence of the complex if the person continues to refuse (or cant) to see other side that me and my boss are one team on the same side and my success is my boss …show more content…

Surprisingly I didn’t meet him for sometime after I returned to give him the cigars however I met him one day just before I travel again. Curiously while I was giving him the cigar pack I asked him that I wish to try out the cigar, that I’ll take a couple of puffs and he continues the rest of the cigar I had no intention doing something else. The first puff for me was so pleasurable I enjoyed the taste of the cigar smoke very much and I finished the whole cigar by myself with each puff I admire the beauty of the cigar (kept saying its like sex). While smoking the cigar I started to ask my friend about the different brands, what are the best cigars in the world, what are the different size and

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